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For some people, this is a real stigma tho.  My stepfather was teased about it all his life, and--in turn, secretly despised me for my color.  It fuked him up in the head, it's pretty messed up because it's not like how you can lose weight, or change hair textures, etc.  This is your skin, you're stuck w/it unless you wanna go full on MJ
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Cause this shyt is getting old.....you can discuss problems.....being dark aint a fuking problem.....its people out here with worse things going on than waking up dark........yall gon fucc around and end up with some real shyt to cry about........and yes Im light-skin.......still doesnt make what I said less valid.......

...yes...yes it does.


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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

For some people, this is a real stigma tho.  My stepfather was teased about it all his life, and--in turn, secretly despised me for my color.  It fuked him up in the head, it's pretty messed up because it's not like how you can lose weight, or change hair textures, etc.  This is your skin, you're stuck w/it unless you wanna go full on MJ


Being dark is a unique adversity? People dont get teased for a long list of other shyt......unchangeable shyt? 

And you can tone lighter faster than you can lose weight.....

The truth is yall feel some type of way about being dark because yall believe the bullshyt.....on some level.....




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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

so the soap everyone in the skin care thread is using won't lead to cancer?

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

^^^^^^^gurl...folks just tryna have pretty armpits that's all.

It's not the same...short term use for hyperpigmentation or scarring versus a lifetime of use to change your natural skin color which will revert to its original shade if you stop bleaching.
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Nah, they get teased on a whole bunch of sh*t--but their skin color is def. one of those.
 
As far as what I believe about skin color, it's never been an issue for me, so I can't really speak on the adversities of it outside of what others have explained, or vented to me about, but I know it's really messed up their perception of beauty and acceptance.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

For some people, this is a real stigma tho.  My stepfather was teased about it all his life, and--in turn, secretly despised me for my color.  It fuked him up in the head, it's pretty messed up because it's not like how you can lose weight, or change hair textures, etc.  This is your skin, you're stuck w/it unless you wanna go full on MJ



Being dark is a unique adversity? People dont get teased for a long list of other shyt......unchangeable shyt? 

And you can tone lighter faster than you can lose weight.....

The truth is yall feel some type of way about being dark because yall believe the bullshyt.....on some level.....





As a dark person I agree, from ur perspective. Some dark people r convinced by what others have said to them. But most dark people r just fighting for those dark people who r to traumatized (for lack of a better word. Maybe affected could work too) to fight for themselves. There r dark people who believe what they have heard so much that they hate themselves. Those dark skinned people get all the publicity. I don't think we give it credit for how deep it is.

My daughter is light. I think about the discrimination she may face. I've seen it on the playground. Some little girl (dark) talked about we skin and treated her like crap when she couldn't c me lurking. For no reason other than she was the lightest person there. Saying my 2 year old "thinks she's cute because she light." I've now seen, at 26 years old, a light person be discriminated against for being light.

My baby, again, tried to ride the same slide as 2 mixed children. they said no, she was black. I walked up and told them to move. 2 different occasions.

People teach their babies to hate whatever. All people do get discriminated against.

But as a dark person, I feel that dark people really have a lot of building to do. It's not negative, and now it's prevalent. Black people need to be positive whenever possible. Its a fact that darker people of every culture have it rough. but we shouldnt put down lighter of the dark spectrum to get out our agenda.

But...I can see Sandra's perspective. I'm agnostic, but I know I used to couldn't c where Sandra was coming from on this, but now I have a light skinned child. Karma? Maybe, but now I get it.
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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

That's the show I was in the audience for, she wasn't nice and pissed a lot of the audience off



oh do tell...
1. was that a set up for her to come down with them?
2.Can we see you?
3.explain what u said she wasn't niceShocked
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No matter how light skintone is you are still negrah. No offense Creole but you worry about the adversities your child will face because she is light? It just seems foolish when so much other pressing issues are out there to worry about. As a mother of a litebrite with lite eyes the last thing I'm worried about is how she will be treated because she is light I worry about how she will be treated because she is a black woman in America.
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Can't we all get along? Brown folk, we need to pull together in these trying times.

As the great philosopher Tyga once said "Light skin, dark skin. Sitcho fine ass right there."

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