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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

perhaps work and it's association with money
is confusing the issue

Clearer when work = effort 





yeah it is confusing lol
that's why when someone asks me if I work, I say I don't earn money. 
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yes. i will tell them. 

and lmao at working on watching soaps. sh*t, watching gh these days feels like work with all the bullsh*t going on so i feel you.


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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

yes. i will tell them. 

and lmao at working on watching soaps. sh*t, watching gh these days feels like work with all the bullsh*t going on so i feel you.


I have 8 Yr's episodes, 9 DOOL's and 12 BBs. lol. Yeah it's work getting thru them in a few hrs.
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my sister used to say that she was going to tell her son, then when he was around 3 she changed her mind and destroyed all his adoption records. She's gone now and I'm still not sure what is the right thing to do. Most adoptees in my family (nieces and nephews) have no clue they were adopted. 

My mom always knew that she was.
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yeah, purp. i say it like it wouldn't be an issue but i'm sure its not an easy decision.
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omg there's this show called bet on your baby on right now and the kids are sooooo adorable
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Noney, right. I don't know what changed her mind. When she adopted him, she even kept part of the name his birth mom gave him. She said she did that in case she/BM ever wanted to find him , she would have something to go on. She was adamant about not keeping it a secret. But something changed.


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wow. that's really sad actually. maybe she thought he wouldn't love her as much. my goodness. i can't imagine. 
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i guess it would be best to expose your children to the reality of all the different types of families in the world early on. the good bad and ugly and hope for the best. 

i'm gonna think on this and come back to the thread later.
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I don't plan on having kids unless I can afford to be a stay at home mom, I want to make sure my kids are educated beyond what schools can offer, I also want to be actively involved in my kids school and activities. My mom is a director at a daycare center, they open up at 5:30am, and close at 6, she said that there are usually several parents waiting in the parking lot to drop their kids off, with many of them not coming back until 4:30-5 to pick then up, by that time your heading home to eat dinner and go to bed. I just don't want the majority of my child's waking hours being spent with someone besides me or my husband.
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