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right. i just hope i know myself well enough to know that i won't go telling everybody who asks about my child[ren] that i adopted LOL of course i wouldn't but its important to know thyself. 

by the same token, giving birth is just as selfish if not more cause like i said, it's not like mothers are saving unborn children from the evil stork in some invisible world or something. having children is not a necessity. its a choice. 
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it's all work

marriage

kids

job

other relationships
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yup, i think its possible that women who say that consider staying at home with the kids is work. its a shame cause unless somebody put a gun to their heads to have children, didn't nobody put a gun to their heads to have children lol

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 sounds like life/just living is work. I agree lol
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yeah

and some of us love our jobs and some of us don't
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well then we should just eradicate the word effort from the dictionary lol

i'm not being an ass. just having conversation. 
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

perhaps work and it's association with money
is confusing the issue

Clearer when work = effort 



 
it is.  it's clear that unpaid effort/work doesn't seem to be considered work...
OT: Reminds me of past SAHM neighbors who would come over to talk with my mom when they were completely overwhelmed (sometimes crying) from the hard work when I was a kid.Ouch
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


yeah

and some of us love our jobs and some of us don't

I used to love my job
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Noney, will you tell your child that s/he was adopted?
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i guess when we say stuff like "i'm working on my resume" that's considered effort so it's considered work? LOL


working on watching these soaps now

work? LOL
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