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i guess when we say stuff like "i'm working on my resume" that's considered effort so it's considered work? LOL
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oh, and i absolutely adore GOOD sahms. i would never consider what they do irrelevant. i just don't consider it work. 
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so what do you think about the moms who say they would rather go outside to work than be at home with children.  is it safe to say they probably consider staying at home with the children work?

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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

so what do you think about the moms who say they would rather go outside to work than be at home with children.  is it safe to say they probably consider staying at home with the children work?


I used to work with a woman who would kiss her desk on Monday mornings and say I'm so happy to be at the office to get a break lol. I think she thought it was work  .

it/staying at home w/ children


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right. i just hope i know myself well enough to know that i won't go telling everybody who asks about my child[ren] that i adopted LOL of course i wouldn't but its important to know thyself. 

by the same token, giving birth is just as selfish if not more cause like i said, it's not like mothers are saving unborn children from the evil stork in some invisible world or something. having children is not a necessity. its a choice. 
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yup, i think its possible that women who say that consider staying at home with the kids is work. its a shame cause unless somebody put a gun to their heads to have children, didn't nobody put a gun to their heads to have children lol

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 sounds like life/just living is work. I agree lol
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well then we should just eradicate the word effort from the dictionary lol

i'm not being an ass. just having conversation. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 14 2014 at 6:45pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

perhaps work and it's association with money
is confusing the issue

Clearer when work = effort 



 
it is.  it's clear that unpaid effort/work doesn't seem to be considered work...
OT: Reminds me of past SAHM neighbors who would come over to talk with my mom when they were completely overwhelmed (sometimes crying) from the hard work when I was a kid.Ouch
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


yeah

and some of us love our jobs and some of us don't

I used to love my job
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