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I was looking for it on tubeplus
oh ok... that is my site of choice...
 
 
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i think i understand what lies is saying. being a stay at home mom is not work because having children is a choice. its not like women go pick a kid from the cabbage patch and decide to raise them. the children are yours so raising them is your responsibility (not work) whether you stay home or not.
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I was looking for it on tubeplus
oh ok... that is my site of choice...
 
 
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this reminds me of the 'marriage is work' thing.
 
eta: defining what is meant by work.  
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I rather stay home without the kids part. Stay at home moms have it rough. You gotta listen to their whining and crying all damn day....I couldn't do it lol
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i just find it so fascinating how people define having children. it seems like people actually think they're picking kids out of the cabbage patch or plucking them out of heaven or whatever and saving their lives (before they're even here.) 

so strange. if you chose to have them, they are your responsibilty
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i just find it so fascinating how people define having children. it seems like people actually think they're picking kids out of the cabbage patch or plucking them out of heaven or whatever and saving their lives (before they're even here.) 

so strange. if you chose to have them, they are your responsibilty


Yeah babies don't just show up out of the blue...they come from a choice.

This reminds of a recent thread on another forum asking is their any unselfish reason for becoming a parent.

The only two I can think of is adoption/fostering and having your rapist's child.


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i totally agree. 

except i consider fostering service WORK, while i view adoption as a choice much like having one's own child. 


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adoption can be selfish
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perhaps work and it's association with money
is confusing the issue

Clearer when work = effort 



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