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Ricky I know someone who's been a stay at home wife her whole marriage...30+ years...intentionally childfree...and she loves it still.

She says just like anything it changes over time. Sometimes she's super busy and involved with lots of different things and sometimes she just chills. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad. But overall she loves it.
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I've done it a few times over the years and at first I always absolutely love it

Work isn't all it's cracked up to be, even business isn't either, neither is staying at home

I go back and forth... when what I'm doing gets on my nerves, I try something else

Work is headed in that direction now 
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Originally posted by purpulicious01 purpulicious01 wrote:


“Well she’s working hard at home, taking care of the kids. But she’s not going back into the workforce, if that’s what you mean.”


“Oh fun! That must be nice!”


“Fun? It’s a lot of hard work. Rewarding, yes. Fun? Not always.”


This one wasn’t in-your-face. It was only quietly presumptuous and subversively condescending.




This man is a very angry person. There was nothing condescending about what the woman said in here. He needs to stop seeing things where there is none.

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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

im with the sahm bandwagon 

I was a stay at home wife... but you can do that only for so long before you side eye yourself

With kids it would be worth it until they're in school full time and settled. 







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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

all women get side eyed it seems, no matter what we do

That's why we should just do exactly what we want, how we want to do it



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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

im with the sahm bandwagon 

I was a stay at home wife... but you can do that only for so long before you side eye yourself

With kids it would be worth it until they're in school full time and settled. 









I know that's right.
My side eye hasn't activated yet.
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I don't have a problem with people staying home if their husband can provide that opportunity but don't pretend you're doing it for the kids.
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IA Creole. Homeboy needs to dial it back some.LOL



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That's nice that he appreciates his wife and the work that she does, but he is slightly reaching.
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

I don't have a problem with people staying home if their husband can provide that opportunity but don't pretend you're doing it for the kids.
 
you think most sahm's are pretending to do it for the kids?
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