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    Posted: Jun 05 2013 at 9:05pm
I have a question, im new to relationships, but do men tell you if they cheated on you, or you have to catch them with evidence and stuffQuestion My take is men lie because they are scared to hurt their girlfriends feelings so they wouldnt tell her. I feel a woman who have an "I dont care" attitude when it comes to bullshxt like that will put a man on punishments. So of course this will make the guy not want to tell her. Then I feel theres the emotional type of woman who will cry and deeply sadden by the truth. So have any of you been in a relationship where ur man told u he's cheated without u having to find out and how did you treat him after finding outQuestion
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I don't think they tell you. Could be for the reasons you stated (don't want to hurt the girlfriend's feelings, being in the doghouse etc.) BUT Most people (not just men) will not tell they're spouse "Yo, I cheated." and it be all good after that. People that cheat want to have their cake and eat it too. 

I haven't been in that situation, but with stories from friends, they caught them or found evidence. Its really really rare for a man to own up to the truth. I hope I answered your question Smile
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Yeah answered it BUT after he says "I cheated" how is it gonna be good after that, wouldnt you be paranoid or would that just build trustQuestion
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OH no, I meant that it wouldn't be all good after that LOL sorry I worded that wrong. Most likely, the girl would be paranoid. It'd break trust. Shooooot, if my man told me he cheated, AND  I had the audacity to stay with them, I would always be side eye-ing them.

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But in all seriousness, if I was that paranoid, I would just end it.
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Right... Thats what happened in my relationship but thats another story lol
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You cheated or he cheated? Shocked You don't have to answer  that if you don't want to 
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Some men feel guilty enough to confess but 99% of the time they won't confess until you confront them with evidence, and even then they pull the "It wasn't me!" ish.
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Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

You cheated or he cheated? Shocked You don't have to answer  that if you don't want to 
No I didnt cheat. I was suspicious if he was cheating, especially when he went away to a big as univeristy. My paranoia was really bad, so I broke up with him. 
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And then he use to be like if I did cheat I would tell you... Whats ur take on thatQuestion
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