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There are lots of people (men and women) who know for sure they don't want to be parents or be married. Some people are astute enough to know their own limits and what isn't going to work for them.

This concept of meeting "the one" and changing your mind...for those who know what they want "the one" can only be someone who wants the same things.

But I get that it's hard for most people to conceptualize that an adult would want something so different from the "norm" so it's easier to be patronizing or insulting about it.
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yeah  We still get the 'you'll change your mind' thing about kids.

matter fact my sis told me last week that my BIL thinks I'm pregnant now because he was here on a day that I had some things delivered. I asked her 'since hub's had a vasectomy, does he think I'm cheating on my husband too?' LOL
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That's funny purp...I've heard of women getting that even when they're past menopause. The worst I think is when people tell a 40 something woman that she should still have a child...I can't understand encouraging someone to have a child that has a much higher likelihood of all sorts of birth defects and health problems. It's so irrational.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Lol

Personally I only believe that sh*t on a person's deathbed..

Life is too unpredictable to speak on such absolutes..

Unless tubes have being tied and ducts snipped


Considering how difficult it is to get those procedures, not having it done isn't a good gauge of someone's seriousness.


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OP...you tryna be with a white man who doesnt want kids or marriage?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Wildfire Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2014 at 5:08pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Lol

Personally I only believe that sh*t on a person's deathbed..

Life is too unpredictable to speak on such absolutes..

Unless tubes have being tied and ducts snipped


Considering how difficult it is to get those procedures, not having it done isn't a good gauge of someone's seriousness.



IA. sis said she would NEVER have kids. She had one at 40 something. She's ensured that she cant have any more though.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2014 at 5:12pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Lol

Personally I only believe that sh*t on a person's deathbed..

Life is too unpredictable to speak on such absolutes..

Unless tubes have being tied and ducts snipped


Considering how difficult it is to get those procedures, not having it done isn't a good gauge of someone's seriousness.


that's debatable
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Whether getting the procedure indicates a person's seriousness...I guess that is debatable.

How difficult it is to get the procedure, definitely not debatable.
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

When I become elderly I might just buy a woman with my SS checks and adopt a loyal pup to accompany me on fishing trips as I tour the country in my camper.



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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:22am
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:



How difficult it is to get the procedure, definitely not debatable.
again that is debatable
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