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creole booty 
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 Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:23am |
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Everyone's struggle is different. Mine is juggling all my responsibilities and school and not going crazy on someone. It's a struggle not to b a b.itch everyday.
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Wildfire
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Location: Kingston, JA.
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:26am |
 KottonKandy wrote:
I hate when people say that. I've had two people tell me that years ago when I was finding my way. I don't feel like people should have to struggle. No one wants to struggle. Yes, there may be struggles in life, but you shouldn't have to have them. You learn to overcome them.. But hmmm, is that's why people tend to hate people who "appears" to never had struggles, at least financially? |
i don't quite understand what youre saying...
the people who dont struggle to make it are those who dont need to struggle....
well, i guess thats kidna obvious. Those who dont have to struggle, just dont.
some will struggle, some wont.
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Wildfire
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:28am |
newdiva1 wrote:
I won't say you have to struggle but most people who make it big do struggle somewhat in the beginning. We very rarely see that. All we see is the finished product and it looks like they've made it overnight. That's not necessarily the case...we just didn't know them when they were "nobody".
The only folks I believe who have absolutely no struggle are the ones born into wealth. I mean...i'll give u a token ...maybe one who wanted to do sh*t on their own but they already have the connections in place and the monetary backing etc so I don't really consider that struggling. Tho they might. |
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Jewelsnyc
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:33am |
afrokock wrote:
Struggle is overrated |
I agree...if you plan properly you greatly reduce your chances of struggling.
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Katrenia
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:34am |
I was in court and over heard (eavesdropping) two men talking;
#1 said "you gone get me back for the lunch I spotted for you last week?"
#2 "Yeah, I got you.
#1 "Cause the struggle is real my niqqa"
I walked out of the judges chambers and was surprised to see to attorneys, #1 was black- #2 yt  |
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KottonKandy
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:36am |
Wildfire wrote:
KottonKandy wrote:
I hate when people say that. I've had two people tell me that years ago when I was finding my way. I don't feel like people should have to struggle. No one wants to struggle. Yes, there may be struggles in life, but you shouldn't have to have them. You learn to overcome them.. But hmmm, is that's why people tend to hate people who "appears" to never had struggles, at least financially? |
i don't quite understand what youre saying...
the people who dont struggle to make it are those who dont need to struggle....
well, i guess thats kidna obvious. Those who dont have to struggle, just dont.
some will struggle, some wont.
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put it like this...some people keep struggling because they put themselves in situations where they have to keep struggling. For example, having a baby and they are having difficulty raising that child. Then they turn around and have another one and now it even more of a difficulty. Or someone opening a credit card, have issues paying for it, then turn around and open another card. From what I see, those are the people going around saying you have to struggle to make it. I think my concept can be difficult for others to understand, like y'all have said, everybody struggle is different and have their own idea what struggle is.
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india100
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:50am |
I think we all struggle simply due to our race . People will hate me until the day i die due to my black skin . I will stuggle to change things for India . A part of life in my op .I will never complain about money or the lack of . God bless me with the basic things i need to live .
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KottonKandy
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 11:56am |
india100 wrote:
I think we all struggle simply due to our race . People will hate me until the day i die due to my black skin . I will stuggle to change things for India . A part of life in my op .I will never complain about money or the lack of . God bless me with the basic things i need to live .
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O_o You claimed it, so you are going to live it. :/
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india100
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Posted: Jun 24 2013 at 12:01pm |
KottonKandy wrote:
india100 wrote:
I think we all struggle simply due to our race . People will hate me until the day i die due to my black skin . I will stuggle to change things for India . A part of life in my op .I will never complain about money or the lack of . God bless me with the basic things i need to live .
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O_o You claimed it, so you are going to live it. :/ |
I have for 50 years . I live to change things for my daughter . Hate due to my race will never control my life . Stuggle was the name of your topic right ? I will struggle with the reason white folk will hate my beautiful black baby and keep it moving . I lean on God .
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journeytolong
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Posted: Jun 25 2013 at 4:11pm |
KottonKandy wrote:
put it like this...some people keep struggling because they put themselves in situations where they have to keep struggling. For example, having a baby and they are having difficulty raising that child. Then they turn around and have another one and now it even more of a difficulty. Or someone opening a credit card, have issues paying for it, then turn around and open another card. From what I see, those are the people going around saying you have to struggle to make it. I think my concept can be difficult for others to understand, like y'all have said, everybody struggle is different and have their own idea what struggle is. |
That is a great example. I think it just has to do with straight up stupidity and choices. You'd be surprise at the number of adults even teens that do not realize "they have a choice". They can truly do wht they want and make a decision. It doesn't have to be hard or difficult for them. No one teaches that though especially not in the schools.
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