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    Posted: Jun 22 2013 at 10:09pm
I hate when people say that. I've had two people tell me that years ago when I was finding my way. I don't feel like people should have to struggle. No one wants to struggle. Yes, there may be struggles in life, but you shouldn't have to have them. You learn to overcome them.. But hmmm, is that's why people tend to hate people who "appears" to never had struggles, at least financially?
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Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

I hate when people say that. I've had two people tell me that years ago when I was finding my way. I don't feel like people should have to struggle. No one wants to struggle. Yes, there may be struggles in life, but you shouldn't have to have them. You learn to overcome them.. But hmmm, is that's why people tend to hate people who "appears" to never had struggles, at least financially?

Do you do this?
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financially I'm good. :) you do that?
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Everybody's definition of struggle is diffetent what my be a struggle for you might not be for me.

But yes you have to struggle cause when you overcomeis when you grow and gain better knowledge of how to deal with things.

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Well it depends I guess from experience. Have you ever seen someone truly struggle? I used to give this homeless man the change in my pocket everyday before going to school. He slept at different bus stops and he used to always come to the shelter I was interning at, at the time. Years later I went to visit a nursing home and saw that he's now he's a ceo there.

Now that I've said that I have completely forgot what I was getting at...my minds everywhere right now.


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^I understand for the most part lol. I'm fighting sleep, so I don't feel like typing out all what I'm trying to say lol. If interested, I'll try again tomorrow. But I still don't feel people should have to struggle. 
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I think I understand what you mean to a certain extent. Alot of people feel that you may have what you have accomplished 'too easy' and that it is unfair b/c you did not work hard enough to deserve it. It ties into the virtue of sacrifice then success. However, many people fail to realize that some people are laid back and not as 'driven' as others.  What may deem as a motivating factor for some maybe not move another.
Struggle is subjective. We do not know everyone phlight. What we see is not always what it is.
At the end of the day, we all have to account for our own lives and as long as we are not depending on anyone or leeching off of anyone else's 'struggle' or sacrafice then it is no one's business what happens in our life.


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I just don't like when people don't struggle than want to compare their accomplishments to mine kinda like trust fund kids and people that have been handed every thing in life i just don't take them that seriously
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there's a certain sector of people who believe that ish and I can always pick them out.
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