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*Gets out popcorn*

Hospice and nursing homes...nah son.
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oh stop it southern

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MamaFace tore her rotator cuff last year and had to have surgery to repair it. I wiped her ass the next day. Just that one time, cuz she did not appreciate it. I was like gurl please. You never wiped my ass? You didn't tend to my c-section incision? Saddown and hursh.

She locked the bathroom door every time she went in there. And took a pain pill every time she came out. Be that way then, ole ornery heffa. My shoulders turn jus fine.

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the irony is that Tami will most likely die alone, having alienated her own kids...because she's a supreme bitch.  she earned her life on her back, never working, and the least she could do was instill some sense of family loyalty to her own daughters by showing what it means to be family.  there's no precedent set so they'll be like deuces. 
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

the irony is that Tami will most likely die alone, having alienated her own kids...because she's a supreme bitch.  she earned her life on her back, never working, and the least she could do was instill some sense of family loyalty to her own daughters by showing what it means to be family.  there's no precedent set so they'll be like deuces. 

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I told a mother today, you wanna act like that with grandma for real? 
You want me to act like that when you in the same position in a few years? 
Alright. BET. I cannot wait. Chickens will come, and they will roost.


I think Tami was kinda harsh but at the same time, if her relationship with her mom was fukked, well it was fukked. I understand it, doesn't mean I condone or live my life the same way. Everyone has their own cross to carry.
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I tell my mom all the time "be nice to me most your children want to put you in a home." She says if I had to take care of her she would pray to die lol. I love my mom she is bat sh*t crazy and I pray when she takes her last breath it's with her five daughters in a bed holding on to her until they pull us away.

Hospice? Not my mammy
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

the irony is that Tami will most likely die alone, having alienated her own kids...because she's a supreme bitch.  she earned her life on her back, never working, and the least she could do was instill some sense of family loyalty to her own daughters by showing what it means to be family.  there's no precedent set so they'll be like deuces. 

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no, i'm not.  if my mom treated my grandmother like an inconvenience when she was dying, i might feel the same for my mom when it's her time.  nobody's parent is perfect so without that example who knows how i would feel.  Tami ain't sh*t and that's why nobody likes her ass.


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thats a fukked up thing to say to a dying person. i can see her saying it to the doctor with her mom not there, but it couldnt have made her mom feel good in her last few months to hear that she wasn't gonna be at home bc tami just couldn't stand the burden of having her there

but then maybe her mom was that type of woman. she might've been like don't do me any different now that im about to die, after 40 years of fukk shyt honey its business as usual
 
 
either way, it reminds me that me and my mama got to have us a lil talk too
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

thats a fukked up thing to say to a dying person. i can see her saying it to the doctor with her mom not there, but it couldnt have made her mom feel good in her last few months to hear that she wasn't gonna be at home bc tami just couldn't stand the burden of having her there


but then maybe her mom was that type of woman. she might've been like don't do me any different now that im about to die, after 40 years of fukk shyt honey its business as usual

 

 

either way, it reminds me that me and my mama got to have us a lil talk too



The hospice part wasn't at the doc office...just the emotionally unavailable.....and what she meant was that that how she deals with the situation.....she doesn't.....and she has to be that way because she has children....
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