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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 8:55am
I would laugh and go on about my business.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 8:51am
Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Its not my problem. I love him unconditionally no matter what.


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Originally posted by TokyoRose TokyoRose wrote:

I ripped this from another website I frequent.  What would you do if you were in this situation?  Honestly, I don't know what I'd do.  If he didn't bring it up, I'd just have to K.I.M., especially if I wasn't at home all the time.  On the other hand, it might be killing her that she knows about it and she wants to tell her dad she knows.

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I normally don't care what people do with their lives, but this hit too close to home.  I told my mother, but she wasn't phased.  She laughed.  When my mother explained their marriage hasn't been great for almost 15 years and said she had always known he was a sexual deviant (into very graphic pornography), I became more upset at the situation.  I haven't been able to talk to my father since.  I broke down crying today over it.  Am I overreacting?  I just want to be done with him.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 8:42am
Its kinda late for her to learn her daddy aint perfect,most of us know that by 5yrs old...she needs to get over it,his identity is more than a father,he is other things as well
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 8:31am
Its not my problem. I love him unconditionally no matter what.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 8:19am
I wouldn't do anything. If her mother isn't phased why is she? Some people are way too worried about other peoples business.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 8:14am
At the end of the day it's your dad...you just have to deal with it as much as it sucks.  I would lose respect for him though.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 7:38am
As long as she didnt find any pics of children or any evidence that he is the long lost Zodiak Killer she should get over it. So her dad is into some kink, that has nothing to do with his role as a father or how he treats her.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 7:25am
She nosey as hell. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 6:45am
hmmm...i'd like to think my father was still my father.  mom knows about it and has been knowing for what?  the last 15 years?  and apparently she married the man knowing he was a "sexual deviant".  *shrugs* if my father is still being a father to me that's his business.  Would I look at him the same?  I can't call it but I wouldn't necessarily cut off my relationship with him because of it.  If it was bothering me that much and I can't look him in the eye n'sh*t i'm sure he'd notice. And i'm sure mom would tell him that I found his Queen stash. Honestly...i'd be a bit curious too tho.  What is your make up game lookin' like? 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 6:42am
she needs to get over herself and stop snitching
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