Looks are only part of it. A confident posture will get you more. Eye
contact, and if you're gonna wear lipstick, wear lipliner / lip lock /
SOMETHING. O's with smudged or feathered lipstick can't be trusted. Or O's that refuse to wear appropriate shapewear. Or the appropriate bra for the dress. It's the little things man. I know you ain't running CRAP if you have a halter dress and are wearing a regular bra. You gon' be waiting in line all night,
But seriously, confidence. I have sauntered backstage at a concert like I knew where I was going and not one person stopped me
. No groupie status, I knew someone in the band and didn't feel like waiting for them to come out. That crap takes forever.