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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote newin2009 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 09 2014 at 6:12am
I also think people who actively use the term to describe the parent of the child doesn't have and/or never did have a relationship. My ex-husband and I would never use that term for each other. It's impersonal,and IMO disrespectful. He and I co-parent very well. We have remained friends after the divorce. I don't know people in real life who use that term.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote QueenBee Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 12 2014 at 2:13am
When my brother and I ¢ are chatting he refers to his eldest daughter mom as his baby momma (never married, drama filled relationship).

Refers to his youngest kids mother (ex wife) as the ex, by her first name, or name of kid mom.

Any thoughts from men on board, referring to the mother of your children differently.
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There is a difference.
Are we pretending it's not?
My SO has a baby mama and and ex wife that he has kids by.
He uses different verbiage when referring to them.

I don't know any divorced people that use BM/BD unless they're joking, and that's still rare.

I only hear "sperm donor" if the father is a dead beat, never married or not.
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Baby Daddy/Mama = Never married and filled with drama and pain and confusion

Mother/Father of my child - If you two are on a good note, but never married
 
Ex Wife/Husband - Married regardless of children or not.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Ming Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 12 2014 at 10:16am
On an episode of the braxtons one member from the father's side referred to their mom as baby mama using a microphone at the their father's bday party. They were offended. The parents were married longer than ive been alive and probably divorced for just as long lol. That's so disrespectful
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 12 2014 at 10:44am
Originally posted by jdoriginal jdoriginal wrote:

Originally posted by ivy07 ivy07 wrote:

of course she's not a baby mama,she got married before she had a child.women who have children out of wedlock are called baby mamas,ok?Reading some of the strange posts,it is obvious some people don't know what the term means.Confused
 
Actually no, she had the children first then got married.
 
I too thought she was married first and was sympathetic. After I learned she did have them out of wedlock i was like *shrug* maybe the other lady didnt know she said "I do" eventually...
 
well this answers my question.  she is a bit too pressed for my tastes...but whatever lady...call yourself whatever you wish...
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Princess Grace Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 12 2014 at 11:01am
Why she mad at the girl and not her ex huzzzzband? he the one that told old girl she was his baby momma . the girl most likely was someone he is currently dicking down, and was being funny, who else just asks a random stranger "are you so and so baby momma?" why would you give a phukc??

sorry I can't buy that is exactly what transpired but its her story. 


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threads like this need polls attached to it.  i wish the site would start allowing polls on TTT threads.
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what would the poll be?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 12 2014 at 11:11am

possible poll....

 
given her scenerio is she:
 
a) ex wife
b) baby mama
c) bastard mama
eta: d) mother of child
 


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