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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote ShadyLady Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 08 2014 at 8:43pm
Originally posted by HunnyB HunnyB wrote:

Some1 is lying.......I don't have receipts, so I'll keep my purchase to my dayum self...


You just gon drop that bomb and walk away?
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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Originally posted by HunnyB HunnyB wrote:

Some1 is lying.......I don't have receipts, so I'll keep my purchase to my dayum self...


You just gon drop that bomb and walk away?

I'm not entirely sure....Geek

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 08 2014 at 9:38pm
^Ohhhhh?

PM shady the deets so she can confirm your bomb dropping.Evil Smile
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Men hate the term Sperm donor lol .
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I've heard people refer to someone as bm/bd when they've been together 97 yrs then had a child. The second the child is born, you're a bm/bd. Have a child in wedlock then divorce, you're a bm/bd.

One of my friend's FB friends husband died and she called him her bd. I had a coworker who'd call her son's father her baby fatha, come to find out the boy is 6 and they were still together

I only say it when Im tryna be rude
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When I watched an episode of Law&Order SVU and Olivia Benson asked the yt girl if she knew her boyfriend (black dude) was still seeing is 'baby mama'  I wanted to jump in the screen and slap the taste out of her mouth.  If the part were written with two young yt girls and a yt guy they would have NEVER put that language in the script.  She literally said BABY MAMA with no contraction anywhere in the sentence.  I hate when they use "code words for black people" by adopting Ebonics for emphasis. 


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Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

I've heard people refer to someone as bm/bd when they've been together 97 yrs then had a child. The second the child is born, you're a bm/bd. Have a child in wedlock then divorce, you're a bm/bd.

One of my friend's FB friends husband died and she called him her bd. I had a coworker who'd call her son's father her baby fatha, come to find out the boy is 6 and they were still together

I only say it when Im tryna be rude


It doesn't matter how long they have 'been together'. Hee hee!

It you have a child out of 'wedlock' .. you are by contemporary standards a 'baby mama'. DUH! 'Being together' is just shacking up. No commitment, no family structure, no support, no financial stability, no framework for responsibility and the list goes on - and before you know it .. there’s another baby by ANOTHER baby daddy. Ghetto.
Then people don't understand why there is so much poverty in the AA community and there are so many gangs. Gangs ... because there is no stability and FATHER in the house so the kids grow up any old way .. and end up in jail/gangs.

Sure there are the exceptions .. but without a legitimate family structure you cheat the kids you love so much out of a fair start in life. So yes, in 15 years they themselves will get knocked up or knock someone up... and the cycle repeats itself.

This is not the fault of White people.. Black people are just raising their kids any old kind of way IF THEY ARE NOT LEARNING TO KEEP THEIR KNEES TOGETHER. Geesh.

And White people can be just as ghetto - because they can be 'baby mamas' too. This term was created by the Black community because propensity to lay up and get knocked up is soo prevalent ... that they made up this term for it.

When I was in high school, they had this big public awareness campaign to bring to attention the number of high school unwed mothers - particularly in the AA community. The big term they used was they do not want you 'to become another statistic'. Meaning just another AA that got knocked up.

I always thought .. well, my parents didn’t have to worry about me ... I don't even understand why these girls having sex either .. because I wasn't.

AND THAT WAS IN 1970!!

So yes, this baby mama thing is waaaay through the roof today. Way out there. I don't think anyone back then could have anticipated that this situation would have gotten EVEN WORSE over the years.

Just pitiful.
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Originally posted by ivy07 ivy07 wrote:

of course she's not a baby mama,she got married before she had a child.women who have children out of wedlock are called baby mamas,ok?Reading some of the strange posts,it is obvious some people don't know what the term means.Confused
 
Actually no, she had the children first then got married.
 
I too thought she was married first and was sympathetic. After I learned she did have them out of wedlock i was like *shrug* maybe the other lady didnt know she said "I do" eventually...


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there are also men that are offended by the term baby daddy
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Sleek Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 09 2014 at 6:06am
Yes I know one man who does not use the term baby mama instead he will say my sons mother
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