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So if you and Mr00 get married have kids and divorce you would refer to him as your baby daddy and not ex husband?
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

So if you and Mr00 get married have kids and divorce you would refer to him as your baby daddy and not ex husband?

We won't....Big smile


But lets be be clear what I refer to him as and what other do is different.....He would be my ex husband to me but to everyone else he would currently be the father of my children. aka my baby daddy....I feel like the only connection that would be acknowledged after a divorce is the children.....if no one knew I had children initially and asked I would say he is the father of such and such......the fact we were married wouldn't even matter....imho......




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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:22pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:


It's not the same

They would call her his ex wife.

Baby mama is different
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But she's both...you're an ex-wife and a current baby mama.

An ex-wife doesn't denote the fact that you have a child, and a baby's mama doesn't denote the fact that you've been married...so why isn't she equally upset that the term ex-wife is a dis to her child?

If you're no longer his wife, why is hanging on to that title so important?
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Originally posted by slayfresh slayfresh wrote:

I understand her gripe about this and even women that aren't ex-wives don't like it either. It carries such a negative connotation.
Yep. But shaming women is nothing new in deez skreets.


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i agree with sandra....

this is a validation issue


yes ex-wife is different than just a regular "babymama"

but at the end of the day thats what she is..no matter how she wants to dress it....... his baby's momma

i would hate to be called so and so's ex-wife for the rest of my life, especially since you're expected to move on









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i have heard ignant married people use that term
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baby mama = never married

child's mother is better but some like to use the term baby momma

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote mizzsandra00 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But she's both...you're an ex-wife and a current baby mama.

An ex-wife doesn't denote the fact that you have a child, and a baby's mama doesn't denote the fact that you've been married...so why isn't she equally upset that the term ex-wife is a dis to her child?

If you're no longer his wife, why is hanging on to that title so important?


Oh I like you you get it......LOLLOLLOL


And at the red.....cause some women aint got shyt else going for them......aka Toya Wright.....
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (25) Thanks(25)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:29pm
Baby mama has that tried to skeet her and delete her but couldn't bc I fuked up kinda vibe.
Ex wife and mother of my kids has that we tried to build a life together but we didn't work out but still made these beautiful kids kinda vibe.


Y'all know that.
I don't make up the rules but those are the supposed connotations
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