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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Ds2nice Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 27 2014 at 3:34pm
I've been through it in my 20s and I know friends that have been through it in their 20s and 30s but all of us experienced the same thing.... end up taking care of man like he's your damn child.   No mam.    I wouldn't recommend any woman waiting around or taking care of a Peter-pan....end up like another Phaedra.  
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

so his finances are simply not together? 
 
depends on the man i guess...but if he has kids and hasn't gotten it financially together yet...i'd automatically pass...
 
 


I have a relative who married a guy who did not have his sh!t together and had a kid whom he wasn't supporting... now all he does is get (psychologically) sick and he is never able to LOOK for a job. Been like that for over 5 years, and she was supporting him without a problem until she got pregnant. Guess who is supporting THEM? his mommy.

A man with kids is already a no-go for me, but a man with kids and broke can't even get near me.
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Some women have a type and yes I have a type… I love engineers both of my parents worked in that field. @ the OP… Would you wait for him? ---- No… I have a type…
Most computer / programing engineers have their $hit together.
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@mommycat, perhaps in your case is the way you were raised.

some women, even when raised by educated parents, prefer thugs or losers.
others grew up with sh*tty parents or a mommy who hook up with losers and now their type is, well, losers.
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I can't build anything but Janga with a BF, sorry. Smile and we won;t be playing that in his moms basement or at the card table in his aunts dining room or Grace is out like your lights when you don;t pay the bill.






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Classic dilemma

The house that needs to be renovated
or
the House thats completely updated with all the bells and whistles

Updated house will get a lot of bids. 
Updated house will entertain multiple offers (hopefully you get chosen)
Updated house is the cream of the crop.

Un-renovated house in sketchy neighborhood will have to wait for some risk-taking buyer ... lol



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never dated a man that made less/had less than me so i cant relate.
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I thought yall liked thugs?

weird thread
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lol
I love 'em
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Classic dilemma

The house that needs to be renovated
or
the House thats completely updated with all the bells and whistles

Updated house will get a lot of bids. 
Updated house will entertain multiple offers (hopefully you get chosen)
Updated house is the cream of the crop.

Un-renovated house in sketchy neighborhood will have to wait for some risk-taking buyer ... lol



thought you were going to say ...a smart investor; but I guess that's the same thing. LOL
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