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If he got all of those issues that brotha aint a great man......he barely aight.....how old? 30.....he has like 5 more years of struggling before he is decent.....by the time he is in the position to marry and provide you gon have powdered eggs....

Too many option....but hey some women enjoy fixer uppers makes them feel like they earned the love and loyalty......no shade....just make sure she aint preparing the brotha for the next chick.....
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

the world is hard on men sometimes. (sometimes) so..knowing me i'd help him. cause even for myself..ive had a late start....so maybe he just needs help...

as long as hes putting in work..and not tryna quit. none of that..imma take a break and find myself stuff..im there for you. i think

hmmm yeah no. I wish my brother or son would say some ish like this to me. Especially if were in a first world country. Yea, I know about racial discrimination. But, I don't do well with excuses like this. No offense to you Lady ice.
i said that because a woman can be in the same situation and ppl will feel pity for her..(sometimes) but since we're talkin men...its just always different. no excuse or anything, just something i noticed. Confused
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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

the world is hard on men sometimes. (sometimes) so..knowing me i'd help him. cause even for myself..ive had a late start....so maybe he just needs help...

as long as hes putting in work..and not tryna quit. none of that..imma take a break and find myself stuff..im there for you. i think

hmmm yeah no. I wish my brother or son would say some ish like this to me. Especially if were in a first world country. Yea, I know about racial discrimination. But, I don't do well with excuses like this. No offense to you Lady ice.
i said that because a woman can be in the same situation and ppl will feel pity for her..(sometimes) but since we're talkin men...its just always different. no excuse or anything, just something i noticed. Confused

Hmm I  understand but, a man is a man and woman is a woman. People can hate all the double standards they like but they are there. The world has proven to be more harsh on a woman than man imo. But, I know black men have it hard, but that shouldn't mean they should use that as crutch. 
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by YoursTruly YoursTruly wrote:

Originally posted by QueenBee QueenBee wrote:

Depends. The scenarios is too broad.

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Early 30s. I believe she said his financial situation is due to being in a car wreck like a year ago and so he couldn't work for a while. But he wasn't making much before that anyway. So now he's doing the preliminary things (getting hs transcripts, testing, etc.) to get into college to get a better job/career.




Was he in jail?, before he got into the car wreck? Is he fine, does he have a third leg? Hmm can you give us a pic of him if available.


No never been to jail...From what I've heard he's a pretty smart guy he just chose to start working after Hs instead of college. Lol@3rd leg!!! I don't know all of those details.
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@f8. 

i understand.
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@yourstruly I was just messing around about the third legLOLStern Smile

See that is why I will make sure, I will let my son follow his educational path if he chooses to. Instead of having him work to these, minimum wage jobs. I will support him through out college. Besides he has whole life to work, why push them early? Not, saying that is what happened in his case. What does he want to do in school? If he still doesn't know, then I would pass on him tbh. If he does, and it depends what he wants to do. I say she should give him a chance, but don't put all her eggs in one basket.
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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

@f8. 

i understand.

If you don't mind me asking, how many sons do you have? 
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just one.
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

If he had a real explanation to his financial problem, which does not include blaming someone else, and he is genuinely trying by actively looking for a job, improving his resume, etc, I would be patient.

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Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

As long as he don't plan to get his stuff together while living off of You, I say go for it...

and this
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