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    Posted: Feb 21 2011 at 4:02pm
my cousin is in France.  He knocked some girl up and is getting married.

He hasn't told his father in HaitiOuch

my mom knows bc his uncle told my mom

my mom's friends told her to stop being so damn american and tell her brother.  my mom was like "No he [my nephew] didn't tell me."

i first told her i wouldn't tell bc he didn't tell her.  but then my mom was like if it was your sister would you tell her, and it was about her kids.  and i was like yes.Ouch

he's getting married this week.


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Tough one.

Since this is something that he will eventually find out about:

I think you should tell, because he will eventually find out...and once he finds out that you all knew about it...he'll prob be pissed as hell...and you know Haitians know how to hold a grudge..or atleast my folks doLOL
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She should tell her brother.
I don't see why she should withhold such important information from her own family member.
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I'd tell him

Maybe it's because I run my mouth too much, or maybe I'd feel that he should know. But I know for sure that I'd tell him.

Why doesn't he want to tell his father, when everyone else knows? Your cousin may as well just tel him. I'm surprised his dad doesn't know already.


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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I'd tell him
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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I'd tell him

Maybe it's because I run my mouth too much, or maybe I'd feel that he should know. But I know for sure that I'd tell him.

Why doesn't he want to tell his father, when everyone else knows? Your cousin may as well just tel him. I'm surprised his dad doesn't know already.


well he only told his uncle and his sister. my uncle has a reputation of being a hard ass.

for years he disapproved of my cousins boyfriend and said he woudnt go to her wedding. whyy? one time he saw my cousin carrying heavy luggage and her boyfriend walking besides her empty handed. that and i guess he's poor. idk

but he's mellowed out. my mom and dad talk to him a lot about being more accepting and now he's going to her wedding and stuff and is supportive.

he's a tough one but he's such a softie underneath

his son is still scared of him even as an adult i guess
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yeah, I would tell him. why doesn't he want to tell his dad?
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its not anyone's place but the son to tell.

he has his reasons and people should just leave it be

unless he is hitting family up for money. if he isnt, its really not anyone's business
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I probably wouldn't tell. I've been in this position a number of times with secret marriage, pregnancy, divorce, etc.  My nephew had the hardest time telling our mom that he was divorcing. It was a long time after before he finally told her. And many babies have been born without her knowing until they were walking or later. lol.
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Let your cousin tell his dad. 
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