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There's gotta be one restaurant willing to step it up and take a chance on her.  Waitresses come and go so theyre not investing that much by hiring her.

Edited by ms_wonderland - Mar 29 2014 at 6:09pm
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

I sure hope that if shes a good mother otherwise and get the kids back, that they drop the charges.

Having felony charges and trying to find a job (especially for a woman) is a bitch.

That'll make her situation 1000x worse.


Confused I didn't think about that!! Is there no way she is gonna get a good job with those charges!


It may be hard for her to get a job... but it won't be impossible.

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Originally posted by ChubbyYeti ChubbyYeti wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Birth control is part of the help that she needs to be getting right now. Just like if she was mentally ill or needed surgery to fix an injury that would keep her from working. It's all a part of comprehensive and holistic treatment in this type of situation.



I don't see how birth control is applicable here. We don't know her prior situation. She's not 18 with 2 unplanned pregnancies. She's 35 with a 2 year old and 6 month old. That right there more points to her using bc than not. She could've been married, these kids could've been planned. Her situation could have just become bad.


The fact that she was homeless, living in a car with 2 kids, and applying for a min wage job tells me that her situation could not possibly have been good before this. Married or not, planned kids or not, it appears to me that she wasn't a person with a good career, money saved, and general stability in the recent past. Generally, people don't go from house/money in the bank/good job/steady relationship to homeless and desperate in just a couple months.
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by ChubbyYeti ChubbyYeti wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Birth control is part of the help that she needs to be getting right now. Just like if she was mentally ill or needed surgery to fix an injury that would keep her from working. It's all a part of comprehensive and holistic treatment in this type of situation.



I don't see how birth control is applicable here. We don't know her prior situation. She's not 18 with 2 unplanned pregnancies. She's 35 with a 2 year old and 6 month old. That right there more points to her using bc than not. She could've been married, these kids could've been planned. Her situation could have just become bad.


The fact that she was homeless, living in a car with 2 kids, and applying for a min wage job tells me that her situation could not possibly have been good before this. Married or not, planned kids or not, it appears to me that she wasn't a person with a good career, money saved, and general stability in the recent past. Generally, people don't go from house/money in the bank/good job/steady relationship to homeless and desperate in just a couple months.

Welp, the recession now made all that much easier.
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I looked her up, she doesn't have a criminal history besides these charges, tickets etc..
Maybe some employer will empathize with her... and give her a chance...

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sad situation. I'd need more info before agreeing to pay her bail but I'd offer immediate assistance to the children.

 

(sad that she won't even get to keep all the money from her fund. )
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

We know Maysay, we know.


You do, but clearly most people don't.

I can't wait til I have some extra money. I'm gonna pay for a huge advertising campaign on billboards, buses, bus stops, and buildings.

Spread the knowledge.

Most people know, that's not the problem.
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I'm not sure if people are really going to post bail for her on here. But since I don't know her nor her previous situations, I wouldn't post her bail. I wouldn't post bail for some people I do know. I would have to know how she ended up in this situation. I'm wise with my money, just because someone has fallen on hard times doesn't mean my wallet will always be open for them. That is how generally how poor people stay poor. I bet all the people who have posted her bail, are below middle class. But that is another subject.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

sad situation. I'd need more info before agreeing to pay her bail but I'd offer immediate assistance to the children.

 

(sad that she won't even get to keep all the money from her fund. )
THIS  ^^^
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It's seems that she has enough money for bail. I would love to contact her, but I am sure there are enough strangers reaching out to her right now.

I gave money the the hide ya wife, hide kids nicca, and they got a house. I wouldn't mind helping her.
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