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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

This system is easier for single moms than childless people.....be serious.....

I am inclined to disagree. being single, childless and broke at one point
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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

You can clearly see the woman wa not homelessi in the picture with the weave/wig and lashes . No compassion for a mother speaks volume when you have no idea what it feels like to be homeless .
 
Anyone in the topc that can't have one ounce of human empathy in my op needs a wake up calll from the lord  . The no good father allowed his newborn to live on the streets , which leads me to believe the lady was in a bad relatiopnship . I pray bhm remains active for the next 20 years to see if some mature on this dang site  . Let me get out of my topic . I need to pray and let it go until monday .


As the kid of a woman who spent the first several years of life in and out of her custody and living in shelters with her...and then in foster care later...

I have compassion for her but not enough to be bailing her out of jail. People have to make better choices and they have to live with the consequences of their actions.

The only people I really feel for in this situation is her children...and at least now they'll be getting 3 meals a day and won't be homeless.

Abstinence, condoms, abortions ftw.
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I am so glad she is getting help. Never seen so many judgmental ass women in one place besides church.

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The kids are here .
Y'all saying abstinence , abortion and condoms....
We get it so now the kids are here should she just off them?

Quit being silly and save it where is applicable


I'm glad she's getting help too.
Hope she gets all she needs for herself and her babies

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You all love to assume you know every single aspect of a persons life.....
Mz00 has been on her own (and I mean on my own) since she was 15 (and working)......worked multiple jobs to afford my OWN shyt and at age 18 I had my own place.....and did that in a new state ALONE.....no wic link section 8.....and no nicca paying my way....so I am well aware of struggling.....but understand my ass wasnt 35 and I did have 2 small babies....cause unlike most women I made the decision to never bring a baby into my situation until it was right.....
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Amen Nita . I wonder how many members every went a day hungry or homeless ? I can't recall a topic .

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Lol at it being silly to think about birth control. This is why we can't get ahead.

If she had thought about birth control then she wouldn't be in this situation with 2 kids, just one. And if she starts thinking about it now, then a year from now she won't be homeless with 3 kids instead of 2.

It's more than applicable...it's one of the first things that need to be addressed because she clearly can't make good choices.
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Lol at it being silly to think about birth control. This is why we can't get ahead.

If she had thought about birth control then she wouldn't be in this situation with 2 kids, just one. And if she starts thinking about it now, then a year from now she won't be homeless with 3 kids instead of 2.

It's more than applicable...it's one of the first things that need to be addressed because she clearly can't make good choices.


Yes it's silly bc that sh*t ain't retroactive.

Her kids are here ...now.


You can save the rest of that bc no one said teaching birth control and abstinence is a bad idea .
I said save it where it applies and if all you got is telling a homeless women with three children that she should have closed her legs at the present time then I ain't got nothing for you.

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What amkes her a good mother?
 
Going to a job interview?
 
I cant with this crowd.....
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

You can clearly see the woman wa not homelessi in the picture with the weave/wig and lashes . No compassion for a mother speaks volume when you have no idea what it feels like to be homeless .
 
Anyone in the topc that can't have one ounce of human empathy in my op needs a wake up calll from the lord  . The no good father allowed his newborn to live on the streets , which leads me to believe the lady was in a bad relatiopnship . I pray bhm remains active for the next 20 years to see if some mature on this dang site  . Let me get out of my topic . I need to pray and let it go until monday .


As the kid of a woman who spent the first several years of life in and out of her custody and living in shelters with her...and then in foster care later...

I have compassion for her but not enough to be bailing her out of jail. People have to make better choices and they have to live with the consequences of their actions.

The only people I really feel for in this situation is her children...and at least now they'll be getting 3 meals a day and won't be homeless.

Abstinence, condoms, abortions ftw.
I recall you speaking on your life growing up . I am happy you made your life better . I told you once to look inside yourself to have more compassion and you where kind to me and listen . I understand she must pay for her mistake , but i hate to see a possibly good mother loose her children for one mistake . I hope we get to hear her side one day soon . Hug
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