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SoutherNtellect 
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 Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:16pm |
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i dont want my husband to have hustle in his vocab
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BeatriceBean
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:17pm |
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All these college grads working minimum wage/low-paying jobs...
Not pressed. Intelligence, stability and life experience are a must.
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:23pm |
 ShadyLady wrote:
Yes.
The only man who I would have ever remotely considered marrying didn't have a degree but was just as intelligent as someone with a degree and provided for us just fine. |
Well said. ITA. A college degree does not make the man. Cause there's tons of men out there wit college degrees that are still lazy as h*ll and treat their women like crap. Trust me I know from experience. My ex had a degree from a prestigious HBCU but he was the laziest self entitled a$$hole you'd ever meet.
Edited by Majesty02 - Apr 07 2014 at 6:23pm
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:23pm |
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I would consider any education level, as long as he has at least what I do to bring to the table, can hold a conversation without me having to roll my eyes and is well-traveled.
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:28pm |
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NO! My ex-wife had no aspirations to further her educational and professional development and I can see how it stagnated her.
If you're not willing to invest in yourself why would I?
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:30pm |
trudawg wrote:
NO! My ex-wife had no aspirations to further her educational and professional development and I can see how it stagnated her.
If you're not willing to invest in yourself why would I?
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:35pm |
Some of the richest people either dropped out of college, or never went. Same for intelligence.
Some of the people that went to school/college for the longest and/or majored in stupid ish are working entry level jobs.
Experience....matters now.
My dad is from the projects, started as a janitor with only a HS diploma....he worked his way up to a manager at Alabama Power making $210,000 a year. This is the same company he scrubbed toilets at....the company sent him to Duke.
I feel sorry for people who think college is the only way to reach success. They will be disappointed when they get outchea.
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:49pm |
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Absolutely! I need my man to be purpose driven, a man of action, intelligent, and self sustaining...with good credit. He needn't have a degree. I know sooooooooooo maaaaaaaannnnnnyyyyyy college grads, eye deep in student loans and other debts acquired during college, with a bachelors degree some with even masters, working entry level jobs, barely scratching the surface of survival and complacent as hell. Drive can't be learned, you're either born with it, or youre not, and no degree can dictate how far one goes in life.
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Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 6:51pm |
OhMyCurlz wrote:
Some of the people that went to school/college for the longest and/or majored in stupid ish are working entry level jobs.
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If you get a PhD in Sociology or Social Work you can't really expect to be successful. If you are willing to study that many years for such a sh*tty degree, you might as well try Medical School.
Edited by sexyandfamous - Apr 07 2014 at 6:54pm
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