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I would also like to add my bf refused to take any money from me when he was not working... I didn't understand why but after reading this thread I guess it was a good thing???
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Yes, this is a good thing.

You have to let a man have his pride.

He's a big boy - he'll figure it out ... WITHOUT asking his girl for money. :)
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Originally posted by Twisted_Angel Twisted_Angel wrote:

I agree with Printer

I make more than my man..been working longer than him.I've been the bread winner in this relationship. Don't matter to me at all its not a competition

He's not a bum at all its just tough to land decent jobs over here especially if you a black man with dreads..they decriminate a lot over here..

Anyways. I'm starting college soon also.

We was having a talk about our future plans he said he would like me to work part time and use the financial aide for bills because I'm pregnant.. were moving out and getting married he feels like Im doing too much..

But now that I think about it he didn't want to be around me in the past sometimes cuz he felt ashamed that he was making x amount of dollars.. so I agree I think its in a mans nature to want to Bring home the Bacon...and I don't see a problem with it and I actually respect it cuz this world getting infected with bums especially men who depend on women like they their mom...won't even bother getting a damn job.

Why doesn't he cut his hair if it is preventing him from finding a job?  Unless it is for religious reasons, I don't know why we would keep them if he knows it is hurting him.
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Originally posted by slykitten slykitten wrote:

Originally posted by Twisted_Angel Twisted_Angel wrote:

I agree with Printer

I make more than my man..been working longer than him.I've been the bread winner in this relationship. Don't matter to me at all its not a competition

He's not a bum at all its just tough to land decent jobs over here especially if you a black man with dreads..they decriminate a lot over here..

Anyways. I'm starting college soon also.

We was having a talk about our future plans he said he would like me to work part time and use the financial aide for bills because I'm pregnant.. were moving out and getting married he feels like Im doing too much..

But now that I think about it he didn't want to be around me in the past sometimes cuz he felt ashamed that he was making x amount of dollars.. so I agree I think its in a mans nature to want to Bring home the Bacon...and I don't see a problem with it and I actually respect it cuz this world getting infected with bums especially men who depend on women like they their mom...won't even bother getting a damn job.


Why doesn't he cut his hair if it is preventing him from finding a job?  Unless it is for religious reasons, I don't know why we would keep them if he knows it is hurting him.


cuz that nicca don't really wanna work.


she's pregnant and its bad enough she HAS to work period and he cant even cut his dreads to make himself a little more employable?
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