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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:53pm
Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Moving in with a guy you already know isn't committed and just came for the milk is stupid even if you ARE married to him.

Purp I'm with you.   I'm not here for all that either.   I'm here for the companionship, love, support, laughs, eye candy, financial stability and lots of sex w/o dating. 

I wish I had a good counter about why he should buy the cow.  Like that sh*t is so ancient.  When women were graduating high school with a diploma in how to get a man to marry you.  sh*t is  Insulting!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 3:17pm
been there, done that..ain't for me
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 4:06pm
Originally posted by EasterBell EasterBell wrote:

been there, done that..ain't for me
 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 4:49pm
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

I don't believe in premaritial sex and having a live in boyfriend is fornincation waiting to happen. My mother always taught me, no mans gonna buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges. How do you feel about this? Have you done it or would you consider it?


I don't think that's true.

Generally speaking, you know where you stand with a man before you move in together. He'll make it very clear to you if he's thinking about marrying you or not. Many women don't want to see it so they set themselves up for disappointment.

Oh, and yes, I have done it. I've lived with my husband for 9 years before we got married 3 years ago.





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Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:10pm
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges.


elaborate?
 

cooking for him, cleaning, doing laundry. wifey stuffLOL 



the help does that too tho....










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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:25pm
Originally posted by Allure. Allure. wrote:

Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
Congrats! Allure, when did you have your baby?Big smile


Living together, getting murried and then having a baby sounds like the route I'd like to take in the future.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:27pm
I've got better things to do than place house. I don't believe in shacking up.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 8:31pm
Originally posted by Allure. Allure. wrote:

Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
 

aww congrats on having a family and marriage
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 9:27pm
I lived with my husband then had our daugther before we were married. Do what works for you.
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