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Momeijheii 
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 Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 3:33am |
Well damn. That didn't take long, did it? 
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Sang Froid
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 3:34am |
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Messing around with people at your job is never a good idea.
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Harmonii
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 5:28am |
 afrokock wrote:
she should tell hr that they both smanged
sh*t, if you are about to push me out im taking bodies with me gawddamnit!! |
This..he wouldn't be messing with my livelihood
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khivey
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:16am |
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Yep, he wants to get her fired. Depending on whether or not he has a better relationship with some of the people in HR, he will definitely have an upper hand in the situation.
This one dude had told me that a chick from his job he used to mess with was causing unnecessary drama and doing little things because they didn't work out. So he confronted her and told her that she could either keep acting that way and get fired because he has a better relationship with HR than she does or she could grow up and be professional and still have her job. She changed her attitude up quick. He had no more issues with her.
So, either your friend is doing little things and he skipped the warning part or like someone else said..he is uncomfortable with the situation and is sick of looking at her.
She needs to let HR know all of the business and hopefully she has learned her lesson about messing with co-workers
Edited by khivey - Nov 13 2012 at 6:17am
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tatee
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:25am |
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theyre not friends and he played by work rules. she made the mistake of not talking to him afterward (at least keep it cordial) which probably led him to believe that she would report him, so he reported her first. classic move, she shouldve known better.
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JamCaygirl
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:29am |
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seriously, don't sh*t where you eat.... take care of your money
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dawills2002
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:30am |
U people are so silly..trying to find old posts and trying to make me out to be a liar. Yes I had a similar situation with a guy at my job but this is a different situation with 2 different people. And besides the guy I had a problem with doesn't even work at my job anymore. Smdh at some of you people. You can't even come on here and write about something without being accused of being a liiar. Why in the hell would I make this up. Any other situation I have ever had I told you all it was me. I'm not ashamed and gives no  about telling you people things that have happened to me. Why would I start lying now?
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BoutThatLife
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 7:16am |
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Ol girl should start telling everything she knows.dig up old texts, print out Facebook messages. Say they had a sexual relationship, she ended it after finding out about his relationship and now he's out to get her
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Afrocentchic
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 8:45am |
Lady ICE wrote:
newdiva1 wrote:
He's tryna get her fired. He's uncomfortable with their past relationship and is tired of lookin' at her. I'm not sure what i'd do but I prolly would at least let HR know of our past relationship. U not gone get me fired that easy. If I gotta go, u gotta go. |
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Exactly and she doesn't have to go into great detail. She can simply say briefly engaged in a non business relationship that extended outside of the workplace. She should mention that she ended the relationship and there has been tension ever since.
She may can provide texts or emails to support this info if she so chooses. (hopefully require them and hopefully they won't be company emails as that could add insult to injury.)
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Naturalchick30
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 9:19am |
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What exactly was he looking to gain by lying on her?
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