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    Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 11:07pm
Women seem to be okay with their men going to strip clubs and paying for lap dances nowadays. There are even some women who think it's common for men to have sex with escorts. They will mention that escorts are probably cleaner than the average woman since they "always" use condoms and get tested regularly. It's no secret that many men are buying sex on sites such as backpage. You may be dating or married to a man who has slept with a prostitute. Are you okay with that?
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I really think you guys are trying to control something ... that cannot be controlled.

Men are about ... sex. Doesn't mean they don't love you unless you have a DOG on your hands ... but I am talking about a decent guy that has a committed relationship with you and does not cheat.

- So sure it's okay if once and a while (like for a Bachelor party etc) he gets together with his friends to go to the strip club and check out the strippers. (If he wants to go all the time .. then yes, that would be a problem in the relationship.)

If he is your man .. he will have fun and leave. If he is a DOG he will take it further. A women forbidding her guy from going to a Strip club is not going to stop him .. if he wants to go. If you don't like it tell him and out of consideration for you, he might not go. But then when YOU want to go somewhere that he rather you not go ... he's gonna try to guilt you out of it too!

So then you will have a problem on your hands if one person is trying to CONTROL the movements of the other person in the relationship.

This would not work for me at all - I would feel boxed in. I don't require my man's approval (shrugs), I come and go as I please. And my guy can go anywhere he wants to go too but of course, if he messed up ... the TRUST will be broken which risks my ending the relationship. It's his choice though not mine because ... I know I am not a cheater.

- As for the him sleeping with a Hooker - umm I hate to state the obvious but A LOT of guys have seen Hookers. (Obviously, if he is sleeping with a Hooker now while in a relationship ... big problem. :O )

But if he has slept with Hookers IN THE PAST ... he cannot undo history when he meets you. What't done is done.

Hookers are in business .. for a reason, so yes, A LOT of guys have visited Hookers. A lot. Typically, they are not going to admit to it to you but a lot of guys have paid for sex. DUH!

Again, I think women are spinning their wheels if they think they are able to control such things.

If you can't trust your man ... he is not YOUR man, so yes, any stripper/hooker or whatever can walk off with him because even if he gets turned on .. he has enough sense to know it will be a big problem if he gets caught.

If he values the relationship .. he has the ability to walk away .. if he does not give a darn ... he will go for it.

But no amount of forbidding his activities is going to control ... a DOG. :(

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I wouldn't. I'd be disgusted. Like damn is it really that bad you have to pay for it? To me that’s lame. I knew a guy that openly admitted to paying for pum pum when he would travel to Venezuela, and Curaçao. However, I can totally understand why he would have to pay. He was socially awkward, and not the most attractive guy, so “technically” he had no other choice.
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But most IMPORTANTLY let’s not forget prostitutes and escorts f*ck for financial reasons. IMO this increases their chances of catching STDs, VD's, and HIV etc. Smashing a prostitute is like playing Russian roulette. And the same thing goes for the men who knowingly have sex with them. If I was dating a guy that admitted to having sex with a prostitute whether past or present that would seriously turn me off
immediately.

It’s obvious you can't control what someone does when you’re not around, nor will you know the secrets their keeping unless their willing to admit them to you. From what I’ve heard hiring prostitutes and escorts is very common amongst military men, and traveling business men. I know several people in the Navy both men & women, and they tell me how when the ships come into port in places like Central, South America, and Asia there's tons of prostitutes waiting by the port for the ships to dock. Because they know a lot of those men are looking sex with no strings attached. Think about it, their horny and they’ve been on a ship for several months at a time with a bunch of men.

Years ago one of my closet friend’s fiancé was on deployment for 6 months, then came back and gave her 2 STDs. She claimed they both got tested before he left, and she wasn’t having sex with anyone else while he was gone. It’s sad but this happens all the time with not just military men, but men in general.

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Umm there are Hookers EVERYWHERE .. and they aren't just catering to miltary men. DUH!

These women are all over and like I said, typically a guy is NOT gonna tell you he visited them because he can already anticipate your reaction. If an STD was a deterient ... they would be out of business by now but that profession is stronger than ever.

I think we should stop playing the young, outraged ingenue that doesn't believe men - ALL MEN have the capacity to see a Hooker .... at least once. I say, ... pull up our big girl panties and face the fact that Prostitution is the oldest profession ... for a reason.

Supply and demand. The demand always has and always will be there - STDs or not.
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sleeping with hookers is disgusting. Have all of that Printer
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Umm there are Hookers EVERYWHERE .. and they aren't just catering to miltary men. DUH!

These women are all over and like I said, typically a guy is NOT gonna tell you he visited them because he can already anticipate your reaction. If an STD was a deterient ... they would be out of business by now but that profession is stronger than ever.

I think we should stop playing the young, outraged ingenue that doesn't believe men - ALL MEN have the capacity to see a Hooker .... at least once. I say, ... pull up our big girl panties and face the fact that Prostitution is the oldest profession ... for a reason.

Supply and demand. The demand always has and always will be there - STDs or not.


Printer_ Ink relax… You always seem to over analyze things, and misinterpret the message. I recommend that you improve your comprehension skills, because they are not up to par. Yes, its obvious most guys will not admit to getting with a prostitute. But the OP’s question was “if you happen to know, are you okay with it? “And yes, well all know that regardless of the STD and HIV rate prostitution will still coexist. That’s a fact. None of the posters in this thread denied that. So why are you trying to preach? Yes I can admit you do have a little knowledge in regards to some of your post, but sometimes you take the OP's topics and go completely left. Just out of curiosity, what is your occupation?
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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Women seem to be okay with their men going to strip clubs and paying for lap dances nowadays. There are even some women who think it's common for men to have sex with escorts. They will mention that escorts are probably cleaner than the average woman since they "always" use condoms and get tested regularly. It's no secret that many men are buying sex on sites such as backpage. You may be dating or married to a man who has slept with a prostitute. Are you okay with that?
unfortunately I feel as though all men will induldge for paying for sex at some point in their life.
 
it is even possible your husband or man is doing it right now.
 
I'll never forget how my s/o reached out to some PICS star he was obsessed with.
 
it was disturbing but once again we live in a world where its okay for men to cheat but not women so I dont know what to say about men sleeping with prostitutes.
 
i dont feel id be able to stop it and i probably wouldnt want to know if my man was doing it.
 
how does a woman even react to that?
 
divorce or break up with him just to end up with another man who probably already done it before or will do it in the future.
 
i dont know :-( but i do know I dont like it.


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