| Majesty02 wrote:|
| Printer_Ink wrote:|
Umm there are Hookers EVERYWHERE .. and they aren't just catering to miltary men. DUH!
These women are all over and like I said, typically a guy is NOT gonna tell you he visited them because he can already anticipate your reaction. If an STD was a deterient ... they would be out of business by now but that profession is stronger than ever.
I think we should stop playing the young, outraged ingenue that doesn't believe men - ALL MEN have the capacity to see a Hooker .... at least once. I say, ... pull up our big girl panties and face the fact that Prostitution is the oldest profession ... for a reason.
Supply and demand. The demand always has and always will be there - STDs or not.
Printer_ Ink relax… You always seem to over analyze things, and misinterpret the message. I recommend that you improve your comprehension skills, because they are not up to par. Yes, its obvious most guys will not admit to getting with a prostitute. But the OP’s question was “if you happen to know, are you okay with it? “And yes, well all know that regardless of the STD and HIV rate prostitution will still coexist. That’s a fact. None of the posters in this thread denied that. So why are you trying to preach? Yes I can admit you do have a little knowledge in regards to some of your post, but sometimes you take the OP's topics and go completely left. Just out of curiosity, what is your occupation?
I AM relaxed. This is me 'relaxed'. :) For work, I am a Computer Consultant so I've spent 25+ years performing a great deal of analysis on systems, projects .. you name it. :) Before that I was in Developmental Psychology .. more analysis. Can't help it as this is fairly methodical work so forgive me if my monthly expenses, income and investment are all charted in Money Management software package too. :)
In my experience is always best to really think things through ... before you step into them. :) Saves a lot of pain and heartache if you at least recognize all the possibilities and can put yourself in someone else's shoes.
I did answer the question of 'if you happen to know, are you okay with it'. The answer is (shrug) I am okay with it because I have NO CHOICE but to be okay with it. What am I gonna do if I am not okay with it? What can he do? He can't go back in time and change it - what's done is done. Actually. this wouldn't even be a topic of conversation with a man - I dont hold his sexual past against him (unless he has HIV etc because that would be very different).
Gosh, if I decided I would not see a guy because I found out he saw a Hooker in the past .. probably I would not be with any guy at all if the TRUTH came out about what he's been up to before he met me. (Now if he is seeing a Hooker at the moment - that would be another situation completely!)
btw - I now live in Amsterdam, The Netherlands (Holland) where Prostitution is legal. There is a section mapped off in every city/town in the country specifically for Hookers, where they have unions, pay taxes and have rights. (Yes, even legal, it's still a nasty business so nobody is bragging about their Hooker daughter that is building up her business and doing well for herself. :( )
It's not always about 'having to pay' for it as if he's some loser that can't get a girlfriend - but it's more than that. For example if your man would like you to do XYZ and you don't - well, you shouldn't do something against your will - okay, but if he still wants it after X years, chances are he's gonna pay for it. Maybe that 1 time is it, maybe he wants it more often, maybe he didn't even like it.
Really, I expect a guy to 'sow his wild oats' before he settles down in a real relationship. He should get all that freaky stuff out his system. If it becomes a big part of him .. he needs to find a wife ... that's into the same things.
I know a woman that married her high school sweetheart and he never had sex with anyone else. Well, you can imagine what happened when he hit 45 and had a male mid-life crisis - he went nuts. Turns out he had been wondering what he was missing out on all those years. Marriage over .. and in such a disastrous and public way. :(
Now if it were the other way around .. meaning would a man be okay to discover if YOU used to be a Hooker.. Ohhh that would be a whole other story. 99% of men (whether they have paid for a Hooker or not) would not stay with a woman if she used to BE a Hooker. Nooooo. Relationship over. Men and women are different.
I think (in general) people should date a lot before they settle down so they learn about themselves ... otherwise you kind of get stuck with a guy/girl you love but the sex may not be all it should be.
Okay, I am off my soapbox .. for now. :)
Edited by Printer_Ink - Jan 06 2014 at 2:31am