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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:04pm |
EPITOME wrote:
kfoxx1998 wrote:
Pity what did you say to her? She's not trying to hear it?
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well tbh i might be in my feelings about it if ive been with a man for four years and im all up and down his life and his families life and we're reaching the point of moving in and discussing marriage
now if it were like a year in--i wouldnt care--but 4...i might raise an eyebrow
now the granny might just want to avoid one particular bf/gf and decided to uninvite them all |
yea maybe it's her ass
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:05pm |
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Of course not! His grandma wants it to be a family vacation & his mother even apologised.
Don't force yourself where you're not needed or you may end up unwanted.
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All of this.
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:05pm |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
well she told the mom that this incident has changed how she views them because she has considered them family for the past 4 years. i will say this girl is really open and welcoming and an all around friendly and inviting person who is trusting. don't think she has a mean bone in her body. so this hurt her feelings esp. since she said she and old boy were about to move in together. and when he did live at home she was there about every day for years. so she thought they were very close
it's hard when you expect people to act the same way you would act.
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But is she close with the grandmother?! Because it sounds like the grandmother was the one making the decision. I think she needs to get out her feelings. Maybe she's not close to the grandmother. Or maybe the grandmother is asking them to take the trip to read the contents of her will - in which case it's for sure not the gf's business. She should stop jumping to conclusions!
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I asked her that...bc she said she's close to his parents maybe grannie is paying... she wouldn't expect them to pay her way the bf actually called grandma to ask grannie how the gf should write the check out and it was then he learned that she wasnt invited. so it seems like he's like hey fams going on vacay, come with, she's all like cool, and then grandma gave the stiff arm
Edited by EPITOME - Mar 13 2013 at 6:07pm
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:07pm |
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Nope, if you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it.
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:07pm |
Breaking up with him coz his Grandma wanted it to be just a FAMILY trip?!      She is just lookig for an excuse to end it. That's so silly.
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:07pm |
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some cruise in July
yeah Nik I told her that. I was like well get married and then you can go on vacay with them  |
*will have to*
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:08pm |
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EPITOME wrote:
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Epitome, where are they going ? |
some cruise in July
yeah Nik I told her that. I was like well get married and then you can go on vacay with them  |
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lmao. i know right. ive never been on vacay w/the inlaws..and idk if i wanna..i like going topless on beaches 
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:09pm |
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Old people just act like that sometimes. Seriously. I doubt the granny even thought this deep into it. She was probably like, I'm old, I want a drama free vacation, 4 years is like 4 hours to me, stay at home please. They don't care who they offend. She should b upset, but I feel she's being self centered at this point. It's not about her and her relationship. It's about what granny wants.
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:10pm |
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Is she related to Scorpio?
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Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 6:11pm |
nitabug wrote:
Is she related to Scorpio? |
meanie
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