| newdiva1 wrote:|
Looks to me like Gavin brought her along as a pack mule.
see what you're saying but ...to judge her..when she might actually be
competent. I mean...why put it on her? Trust your husband to say no
and fire her if she throws the cooch at him. Why would he burn u if he
loves u? And why assume your man is so weak to just take what's thrown
at him? That's like females gettin mad at the other female when they
catch their husband lookin' at her.
not comin' at u but i'm just sayin'.
totally get what you're saying. To put perspective on it. My fiance
works in the club industry, and has for the past 7.5yrs that we've been
together. I work in the entertainment industry and have for the past 3/4
yrs. In that time, I haven't stalked him to ensure that he's not
talking to chicks, and vice versa. Yes I trust my man and don't go
running around acting like a crazy stalker. But I've also had women try
me - not him acting unfaithful - but nutty chicks who see my fiance as a
walking wallet or think that they can do and say what they please and I
have to check a chick from time to time. And I know women who enjoy
attempting to sleep with other ppl's men just to prove that they can.
But then I also know men who think it's cool to try to take a man's
chick. Seriously, I just got engaged and have had more men try to push
up on me in the last 3 months even when I wave my hand in their faces.
said that, and knowing how thirsty some people can be, I'm not inviting
a potential problem into my actual home. I know I have to deal with a
lot of crazy chicks & guys when I walk outside my 4 walls. But I'm
FOR SURE not going to set myself up for a scenario where I'm creating an
opportunity for problems.
Besides, I'm not a fan of nannies. I'll raise my own kids thanks.