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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I thought this was but your friends husband.

Oh her mom as husband?

Things become tricky.. But momma fell for the okey doke

I'd just express my disappointment and leave it that.
what does this even mean, are you okay?


Stepdad sounds like a total loser in every which way
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

the daughter sounds unhappy in her own life and is seems like shes using these people as a distraction.  if anything she should be happy that the loan was forgiven since it probably wouldve been her mother would have had to pay it off anyway. i guess it doesnt matter that the mother wouldve been in debt but who shes in debt for.



This.  And for her to be mad that step dad's loan was forgiven smacks of childlike pettiness.

And since the girl is done with school and got her degree, really she needs to leave the past in the past.  Her mom helped out the 2 people she loved...I can't fault her for that.  Mom had to make a choice financially to cut back, so she did.  Yes daughter was effected, but atleast she did get some help for a time. 

Really daughter should be atleast a bit grateful she got any money at all from a parent.  Some kids get ZERO. 

Let it go.  Bitterness is like a worm in an apple...its going to rot her.

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Her mom can do what the hell she wants. 
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Brotha must have that dope dick, pause.
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Originally posted by Morris Chestnuts Morris Chestnuts wrote:

what is his disability? Geek


find out exactly what it is, and report back.

friend's mom was wrong. she needs to go ahead and tell her mom how she feels about everything. Privately, though, not in front of the husband. He may ruin things
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote nala52808 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 21 2013 at 7:48am
This kind of reminds me of my own situation. I guess, if it bothers the friend, she should talk to her mom.
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Why isnt she mad @ her own father for not helping her?

Her mother had no obligation to pay her tuition so she's lucky mommy paid for those 2yrs

How is step-dads 50g loans being forgiven if mommy funded his tuition?

6yrs aint that long,she graduated and has a decent job. She should basically stfu and let sh*t go, what her mama does with her husband is not her business
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Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Why isnt she mad @ her own father for not helping her?

Her mother had no obligation to pay her tuition so she's lucky mommy paid for those 2yrs

How is step-dads 50g loans being forgiven if mommy funded his tuition?

6yrs aint that long,she graduated and has a decent job. She should basically stfu and let sh*t go, what her mama does with her husband is not her business




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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Hell yes, bring that sh*t up.
Just in case she reading this thread. Discuss her disappointment, but be mindful, that her mom going to do whatever she want to do.. If it is bothering her, then they could possibly talk about it.

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Your poor friend. I can't imagine the hurt one must feel when a parent choosing a penis or vagina over their own child. Yes I would bring it up and start distancing myself from my Mother. Disappointment in parents is awful, I have been there.
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