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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote herwoman Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 29 2013 at 11:06am
That's what I've been saying
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why would anyone rate this thread anything other than 5 stars!?
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Whowsa!!! I slept on this thread because of the title but I gotta say once I got to reading, I was mesmerized! So much for the "I'm too dignified" bullshyt front. I loved it! Sipping Sangria the whole way through!
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my cup ran over from this thread.. man, this was some good tea right here..LOL
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Crazy wow
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This entertainment went well with my white zinfandel. LOL 
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Yesterday, Heffa was schedule to come in for an EVENING meeting and she was told to bring representation if she felt the need. Only relevant people were there and they didn't want any drama when she came in which makes sense. Her stuff is still there and hasn't been collected. Even if they would have let her stay she would have been better off resigning because seriously, no one is going to respect you. Everyone will treat you like sh*t. You have zero chance of promotion.

They weren't cleaning his office yesterday. They were searching. He is supposed to come in this evening.

The fate of the admin asst is unclear but having just had lunch with a few people-one of them in accounting-there is talks of a cover up. That maybe SC had someone watching his back down there. HNIC and Legal requested expense reports from the last four years which is the amount of time SC has been there. That happened yesterday morning. They are saying that there is no way the admin asst couldn't have known what was going on. Someone asked how they knew and how she got the wife involved. And she said she wasn't willing talk about that this early on because it could get traced back to her. But she said that when she could she would.

From what she DIDN'T say, I gather the AA is not innocent and she may have a deal. She does know an awful lot of sh*t. She might not be untouchable but institutions get a lot of leeway.

Some of the people are the saying the wife was stupid for coming down there but others are commending her. People didn't really have ill will toward him since the only thing you can give him credit for is not showing preferential treatment. Heffa never had any unwarranted bonuses, raises or was treated differently than anyone else while at work from what we know. If she did, she was smart enough to keep it to herself, but I don't think she's the kind of person that would. So that tips in his favor for some people.

I say the wife knows what she's doing.and succeeded. She controls the narrative now and he is at her mercy. But I don't know. I wouldn't describe my boss as an alpha. He has a since of pomposity and conceitedness to him. He is all about his "image." The irony.
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I agree with the op, the wife knows what she's doing.
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The wife did have a hidden camera in the bedroom!

Best parts are bolded. Update:

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Welp, they found some financial y but they ARE NOT revealing how he covered his tracks. Like people are asking and the intermediate people in the know in accounting aren't saying sh*t. I don't know what the is going on. But there was a board meeting today and they were in there for two and a half hours. Every company handles these scandals differently. And who knows? He could have his own ish on people. 

The wife told HNIC he had a secret account with beaucoup bucks in it that definitely was NOT hitting her household, and that he had a condo in AC in his name only that she knew nothing about until this year. So there was no tax shelter, but an account.

And I'm just praying that the HNIC does not have to take this one on the chin because he's one of the most upright brothas I've ever known. But they are going to hold him responsible for this y and my heart is broken. I don't think he's getting fired but like with anything, those who are at the top must take responsibility for what their subordinates do. After everything he's done for this man. He was grooming him to be something special. And what happens with some men is when they get to a certain position in their life, they start thinking they can do WHATEVER, WHOMEVER, and WHENEVER. Their egos get in the way of their common sense. But you bring everyone down with you when you it all up.

Still now word on the admin asst yet, BUT an HR dude (because men gossip like chicks in this bitch too) is saying when the wife stormed in that day she said she had a nanny cam in their bedroom for a months and it was when they were at the shore this past weekend (and he never made it up there) that he bought Heffa to the house. And what set her off wasn't just that the chick was in her bed f*cking her husband but that she was going in that woman's closet, touching her sh*t, messing with her jewelry. And wore her bath robe. LOL. They said she read his bloody ass for filth. She knew about the other women, the gambling and everything and told him that ALL his sh*t was going to be sold at the end of the day and that he better not even think about coming home. 

He had a nerve to tell her take her a* s home and stop being an embarrassment to HIM, with their private life on blast. And I guess that's when she really went off. 

His bank accounts have a zero balance for sure. LOL

You have to be the dirtiest skank b*tch alive to stick your cheating crusty a*s body into someone else's sh*t. And the husband was not even caring. I guess she was just living all vicariously. Nasty wench.

I'm not sure how this is going to play out. Are they gonna cover it up enough or are they going to take it to the courts? The HNIC doesn't really have a final say in this. I know he would want this a*shole fed to the wolves. At this point, it's going to come down to who has the most leverage. Like I said, other scandals will come into play.



Edited by OrriannaRose - Sep 01 2013 at 4:54am
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I think this lady is an author. This is way too damn juicy. She's good!
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