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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I've been seeing a mini movement where women are electing to not take hormonal bc.

I'm thinking about following suit


I can't take BC...it literally makes me crazyOuch. I'm already someone who can get irritated easily by irritating situations...I don't need additional help in that department. We stick to condoms.
I know that feel. I have anxiety and the BC definitely rachets it up quite a bit. I get head aches etc. I take the lowest dose possible and still have issues. But I can't get off of it.
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Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

I couldn't get something stuck inside my body. I want to be able to stop bc at my leisure.


This...

If I was to get back on BC, I'd have to either do the pill or the patch. From personal experiences, if mess goes south, I don't want to have to schedule an appointment to get it removed or wait 3 months in the case of the shot for it to work its way out of my system.

When I was on the pill, it was low dose, but obviously not low enough. Ouch
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Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

Shaming is pretty ineffective.  You just get teens f*cking dangerously.  97% of people have sex before marriage and around 70% have sex in their teens.  The shaming ship has sailed.  


yep

but shaming was effective, that's why there were so many shotgun marriages

I do wonder what the stats were for teen premarital sex back in the day

like btw ages 13 and 18
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Yeah whatever.
I see nothing wrong with it being used as a supplement .

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Yes, teenaged births. That's what i was thinking.
i wonder how they count unplanned. My first will not be. I'm planning for it to be unplanned. Lol
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know teenage pregnancies are getting better now.

With my little sister I educate and inform and I sprinkle shame in for good measure.

It will def stay in my arsenal.


Yeah, people are waiting longer. If they are having sex, they're more likely to be on birth control than previously.

No shame in my arsenal.  Everyone has to do it their own way though. LOL
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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

I couldn't get something stuck inside my body. I want to be able to stop bc at my leisure.


This...

If I was to get back on BC, I'd have to either do the pill or the patch. From personal experiences, if mess goes south, I don't want to have to schedule an appointment to get it removed or wait 3 months in the case of the shot for it to work its way out of my system.

When I was on the pill, it was low dose, but obviously not low enough. Ouch
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Women should be allowed to get their tubes tied whenever they want as long as they are over 18. I don't think it's right to scold women about pregancy and don't allow them all the options.
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Dr.s discourage younger men from vasectomies also

Edited by jonesable - Feb 05 2013 at 1:51pm
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

Shaming is pretty ineffective.  You just get teens f*cking dangerously.  97% of people have sex before marriage and around 70% have sex in their teens.  The shaming ship has sailed.  


yep

but shaming was effective, that's why there were so many shotgun marriages

I do wonder what the stats were for teen premarital sex back in the day

like btw ages 13 and 18


I think in the 60s it was around 68 percent.  I'm remembering off the top of my head though so don't quote me LOL.  People got married much earlier and more frequently though. 
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