Womens, how hard is it NOT to have kids?!?!

I sympathize with everyone when unplanned pregnancies happen bc anyone that has ever done the horizontal polka knows that you're not always thinking straight...I don't sympathize with deadbeat dads though.

Not wearing a condom is often the cause of both parties saying screw it. He says he doesnt want to and u let it go down anyway. women can plan ahead of time for such circumstances. I think I want the iud.

modelbusiness82 wrote: jonesable wrote: I've been seeing a mini movement where women are electing to not take hormonal bc. I'm thinking about following suit I can't take BC...it literally makes me crazy. I'm already someone who can get irritated easily by irritating situations...I don't need additional help in that department. We stick to condoms.

do you ever let him get a few strokes raw or just the tip?

Shaming is pretty ineffective.  You just get teens f*cking dangerously.  97% of people have sex before marriage and around 70% have sex in their teens.  The shaming ship has sailed.  

I couldn't get something stuck inside my body. I want to be able to stop bc at my leisure.

Bunnyahh wrote: modelbusiness82 wrote: jonesable wrote: I've been seeing a mini movement where women are electing to not take hormonal bc. I'm thinking about following suit I can't take BC...it literally makes me crazy. I'm already someone who can get irritated easily by irritating situations...I don't need additional help in that department. We stick to condoms. do you ever let him get a few strokes raw or just the tip?

No...

I know the women in my fam are wayyyy too fertile. And twins runs in my fam as well. And his fam seems way too fertile too lol. Someone's always getting pregnant.

It takes like 2 seconds to put a condom on, and doesn't kill the mood either to take a quick break and put it on. I'm telling y'all...condoms are free in NYC lol. We're always stocked up!