Womens, how hard is it NOT to have kids?!?!

Bunnyahh wrote: http://forum2.blackhairmedia.com/she-got-pregnant-behind-his-back_topic342822_page1.html

do you think this happens often bunny?

MM knows he's a hoodrat

I'm crossing my fingers that with ACA in place, more women will be able to get on long-term forms of birth control.  They have a much lower failure rate, which is a big part of the problem.  Also, women who couldn't afford the higher upfront costs will be able to get on them when they weren't using birth control previously.  That is one very big part of the solution.  Countries that cover contraception have much lowers rates of unintended pregnancy.  People can huff and puff about "closing your legs" etc, but with our oops baby rates being so high, a different approach is needed.  Luckily, some people have figured out how to be practical. 

Bunnyahh wrote: SamoneLenior wrote: Bunnyahh wrote: http://forum2.blackhairmedia.com/she-got-pregnant-behind-his-back_topic342822_page1.html do you think this happens often bunny? yes, but most unplanned pregnancies aren't cuz of her tricking him.  It's cuz he just didn't want to wear condom.

Okay then!

And you can't trick and trap ANYBODY. If you sit up and take what somebody say as law, you deserve a baby. How you gonna sympathize with a man who believed a chick was on birth control? He shoulda still used something just like y'all saying we shoulda "make" men wear condoms under any circumstance.

jonesable wrote: I've been seeing a mini movement where women are electing to not take hormonal bc. I'm thinking about following suit

I can't take BC...it literally makes me crazy. I'm already someone who can get irritated easily by irritating situations...I don't need additional help in that department. We stick to condoms.