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Y'all men never go in on these Brothas who don't take care of their kids. Once a baby is born it aint like she can send it back. Just own up to your responsibilities.
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I don't take what MM says seriously, but I've heard a lot of arguments from other people that are similar.  The whole way we approach reproductive health is backward and ineffective.  
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Womens will lay down and ALLOW a Brotha with condom-less penis to creampie they pu$$y and then swear up and down that the blame for HER resulting pregnancy falls evenly between them.

LMFAO I bet it sounds perfectly rational in their heads though.



See this is where you get outta pocket.
Why put your penis condom less in the pie?

So yes the result is 50/50
why does he care about what women do with their vaginas so much  if he doesn't have one?
 
Let's not pretend that brothers are so selective with who they lay down with either.
 
I can't tell you how many brothers I observe on a daily basis, one now in therapy because they made a poor choice that resulted in a child.
 
He is more angry that he can't control his babies mom then about the baby...5 years later. The negro had a stroke because of it. He's 36.
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Both sides gotta get it together. Brothas gotta stop smashing hoodrats
raw then when they have a kid he talking about how much he hate her. He
hated her before, he just couldn't stop hitting it cause it was easy
coochie.

And women gotta stop acting like they getting tricked
and bamboozled by men too. You knew that nicca was no good. He wasn't
father material at all. I log on Facebook and see how these young women
having babies and everyone is just congratulating them and saying how
its a blessing and this and that. It has become a culture in our
community to accept and support single parent homes. Go to other
cultures, they don't play that. The women don't think its cute at all to
have a baby without being married to a man and being taking cared of.
But it's now seen as normal and commendable in the AA community.




It used to not be.
People were shamed and sent off to stay with family somewhere up north or the baby was adopted in the family.
It wasn't always accepted.
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Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:


Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

Men contridict themselves on this topic. It's funny.
what is the contradiction?  Is it itt?


Men say pregnancy is all on the woman until she decides something he doesn't want to do. If midwest got somebody pregnant and she said she wasn't keeping it, he'd have a fit.

You womens contradict yallselves by saying that that both the woman AND the man hold the responsibility for the pregnancy, but then during matters of abortions yall say that it's only a "woman's right", even though that's that man's child too. Yall only believe in that "it takes two" sh*t when it's convenient to do so.

So what's your point?


The only reason women say that is because of the male sentiments in the thread. I'd ask a man's opinion, but if a dude tells you that "oh this is your problem" How would you respond?
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Womens will lay down and ALLOW a Brotha with condom-less penis to creampie they pu$$y and then swear up and down that the blame for HER resulting pregnancy falls evenly between them.

LMFAO I bet it sounds perfectly rational in their heads though.



See this is where you get outta pocket.
Why put your penis condom less in the pie?

So yes the result is 50/50

Nope, that post represents the point of view of A WOMAN who don't want kids. Which is apparently yours and some of these other womens in this thread.

That post is PERFECTLY valid and logical.


Edited by Midwest_Da_Gawd - Feb 05 2013 at 1:13pm
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Womens will lay down and ALLOW a Brotha with condom-less penis to creampie they pu$$y and then swear up and down that the blame for HER resulting pregnancy falls evenly between them.

LMFAO I bet it sounds perfectly rational in their heads though.



See this is where you get outta pocket.
Why put your penis condom less in the pie?

So yes the result is 50/50


This is how most black men think.
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And you can't make a man be responsible. Just like women have choices, so do these Brothas. You ask these black men to do right by you and the kid you're being "a nag" and always "on his back".
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Originally posted by Afrocentchic Afrocentchic wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Womens will lay down and ALLOW a Brotha with condom-less penis to creampie they pu$$y and then swear up and down that the blame for HER resulting pregnancy falls evenly between them.

LMFAO I bet it sounds perfectly rational in their heads though.



See this is where you get outta pocket.
Why put your penis condom less in the pie?

So yes the result is 50/50
why does he care about what women do with their vaginas so much  if he doesn't have one?
 
Let's not pretend that brothers are so selective with who they lay down with either.
 
I can't tell you how many brothers I observe on a daily basis, one now in therapy because they made a poor choice that resulted in a child.
 
He is more angry that he can't control his babies mom then about the baby...5 years later. The negro had a stroke because of it. He's 36.
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