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Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

in Mid's op, he indicated that he doesn't like women with kids. what does the baby daddy have to do with that?
 

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He said it ad if pregnancy is all a woman's fault.
it mostly is.  We have more control in that dept & options as far as prevention, pre & post fertilization, carrying to term or keeping it.
 
If a woman has a baby its cuz she wanted it. 
 
If a man has a baby, its cuz she decided for him
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Men should have no input on abortions.
But I think it's funny how the most unfit people are so against abortion.
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That what I mean by being in charge,
I determine who or what enters me where, how , and when.
I determine what comes in or out.

If I were to get pregnant no doubt it would be the responsibility of me and his father but I would put me getting pregnant on myself mostly.
Tbh

Maybe he would feel the blame for his part too.

But as for my own introspection I would ultimately feel that I let it happen
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i wish women could get themselves preggo
we now can with scienceBig smile
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

That what I mean by being in charge,
I determine who or what enters me where, how , and when.
I determine what comes in or out.

If I were to get pregnant no doubt it would be the responsibility of me and his father but I would put me getting pregnant on myself mostly.
Tbh

Maybe he would feel the blame for his part too.

But as for my own introspection I would ultimately feel that I let it happen


I second this. The sperm enters you as the woman. & it fertilises an egg within you. & the baby grows inside you. That being said a huge part of baby having lies on you.

If you were to say no more kids for me! There would be none regardless of the fact that your man can still ejaculate healthy sperm.
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You can't tell a woman it's all up to her until she does something you don't want her to do. Men love policing women's reproductive organs but refuse to step up. Have a baby, you a hoe. Have an abortion, you a hoe. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
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This convo reminds me of every female male debate I've witnessed...u can never say anything about the opposite sex without them shooting back something about your sex. I'm like, "so? I'm not fking these women."
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If I am the gatekeeper to all things child rearing, don't tell me what to do with my body then. Men are quick to voice their opinions in something they claim to have no control over. That's odd to me.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i wish women could get themselves preggo
we now can with scienceBig smile

how so? 
sperm donor? 
or some new trick i havent heard of?
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you want a boy jones?
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