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Finesseful 
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 Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:42pm |
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Y'all say pregnancy is a woman's issue but get mad when she gets an abortion without your input. Nobody wanna hear these pitiful ass stories.
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:43pm |
 jonesable wrote:
Tbh a child is both the mother and fathers responsibility .
50/50
But as for pregnancy, if I get pregnant I would fault myself mostly.
I am in charge of my own body |
If you live in America, trueeee. *hopes this doesn't turn into a convo about rape, being imprisoned in dungeons, etc.
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:43pm |
Junior Jr wrote:
in Mid's op, he indicated that he doesn't like women with kids. what does the baby daddy have to do with that?
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Because it's a chicken & egg issue and there are 2 people who deserve blame - not just her. Which goes back to my post of "the woman must take on all responsibility while the man gets a slap on the back for proving that his junk works".
Unless you're the Virgin Mary, we're not out here getting full bellies
on our own. And his attitude came off as, "why can't these womens get
their ish together" (bad grammar and all). But conversely, why cant
these "mens" get their ish together? As I said in a post I made
way back in this thread, depending on where you are in the US, condoms
are free and widely available. To be such a skanky ass dog that you
would rather potentially create children or put yourself in risk of
catching something because you think a bit of latex is a fail, shows
you're not much of a man and are in fact a jackass. A lot of these black
dudes out here act like a condom is kryptonite. And 9 times out of 10,
the girls these guys are getting pregnant aren't even anyone they really
want to take seriously. Yet, you would potentially latch yourself to a
jump off for at least 18 years? So what does that say? Who's the
bigger fail? The woman for being stupid and thinking a dude really cares
for her so she lets him go raw? Or the dude who KNOWS he doesn't want
her like that and puts himself at risk of becoming a statistic?
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:45pm |
Finesseful wrote:
Junior Jr wrote:
in Mid's op, he indicated that he doesn't like women with kids. what does the baby daddy have to do with that?
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He said it ad if pregnancy is all a woman's fault. |
it mostly is. We have more control in that dept & options as far as prevention, pre & post fertilization, carrying to term or keeping it.
If a woman has a baby its cuz she wanted it.
If a man has a baby, its cuz she decided for him
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:45pm |
Men should have no input on abortions. But I think it's funny how the most unfit people are so against abortion.
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That what I mean by being in charge,
I determine who or what enters me where, how , and when.
I determine what comes in or out.
If I were to get pregnant no doubt it would be the responsibility of me and his father but I would put me getting pregnant on myself mostly.
Tbh
Maybe he would feel the blame for his part too.
But as for my own introspection I would ultimately feel that I let it happen
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:47pm |
coconess wrote:
i wish women could get themselves preggo |
we now can with science 
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:48pm |
jonesable wrote:
That what I mean by being in charge,
I determine who or what enters me where, how , and when.
I determine what comes in or out.
If I were to get pregnant no doubt it would be the responsibility of me and his father but I would put me getting pregnant on myself mostly.
Tbh
Maybe he would feel the blame for his part too.
But as for my own introspection I would ultimately feel that I let it happen |
I second this. The sperm enters you as the woman. & it fertilises an egg within you. & the baby grows inside you. That being said a huge part of baby having lies on you. If you were to say no more kids for me! There would be none regardless of the fact that your man can still ejaculate healthy sperm.
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Finesseful
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:48pm |
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You can't tell a woman it's all up to her until she does something you don't want her to do. Men love policing women's reproductive organs but refuse to step up. Have a baby, you a hoe. Have an abortion, you a hoe. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
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This convo reminds me of every female male debate I've witnessed...u can never say anything about the opposite sex without them shooting back something about your sex. I'm like, "so? I'm not fking these women."
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