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Lol you never hit raw Middy? Everybody has tried it at least once. To not have done so is unamerican.




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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 

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I haven't gone raw since 2007.
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I've been raw plenty of times. Cool
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You've gone raw Finess?


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Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

Lol you never hit raw Middy? Everybody has tried it at least once. To not have done so is unamerican.

Nope. Never.
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I known more women with children than men. 
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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

^^^^@model.  I think the message got twisted over time.  My gramma used to say she didn't need a man but that didn't mean that she didn't want one.  She did what she had to do to take care of her babies while she was single. I think AA women back in the day were taught to be self sufficient in case of your man gettin' lynched, sent off to war along with the off chance of divorce.
 
Back in the day....to be self sufficient not only as a matter of personal pride in being able to take care of yourself but just in case.....just in case.
 
I think around the late 60's it morphed into you don't need a man period ....that's what alot of women started teaching their girls (for various reasons).   They would give their girl children only half of the African American Proverb.


I agree with you, the AA woman is historically the backbone of this country and by default has a very strong role to play. Take a Civil War History course, and you'll find that the AA woman was rocking her household and the white man's household as well.

And I also agree that being strong back in the day was a necessity since the odds were really against you:

1. having to be strong bc your love interest (as you weren't allowed to be married) got sold by slave owners

2. having to be strong bc your husband (as you mentioned above) got lynched/arrested etc.

However, now we've preached "strength" to AA girls to the point that we're not teaching AA boys to be men who handle their responsibilities. Let "mamma" handle it all while he acts a fool hanging in the street. I'm tired of all the responsibilities for everything in the AA community being pushed on us, while our male counterparts are given a pass for being pathetic and those who do as is expected of a MAN (not a male) get praise like they've climbed Mt. Everest.

The OP's post alone proves that mantra. He didn't even mention that chicks can't get pregnant solo, it's 100% the woman's fault from his POV and the sorry punk who got her pregnant was just what? "Being a man?"

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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

^^^^@model.  I think the message got twisted over time.  My gramma used to say she didn't need a man but that didn't mean that she didn't want one.  She did what she had to do to take care of her babies while she was single. I think AA women back in the day were taught to be self sufficient in case of your man gettin' lynched, sent off to war along with the off chance of divorce.
 
Back in the day....to be self sufficient not only as a matter of personal pride in being able to take care of yourself but just in case.....just in case.
 
I think around the late 60's it morphed into you don't need a man period ....that's what alot of women started teaching their girls (for various reasons).   They would give their girl children only half of the African American Proverb.


I agree with you, the AA woman is historically the backbone of this country and by default has a very strong role to play. Take a Civil War History course, and you'll find that the AA woman was rocking her household and the white man's household as well.

And I also agree that being strong back in the day was a necessity since the odds were really against you:

1. having to be strong bc your love interest (as you weren't allowed to be married) got sold by slave owners

2. having to be strong bc your husband (as you mentioned above) got lynched/arrested etc.

However, now we've preached "strength" to AA girls to the point that we're not teaching AA boys to be men who handle their responsibilities. Let "mamma" handle it all while he acts a fool hanging in the street. I'm tired of all the responsibilities for everything in the AA community being pushed on us, while our male counterparts are given a pass for being pathetic and those who do as is expected of a MAN (not a male) get praise like they've climbed Mt. Everest.

The OP's post alone proves that mantra. He didn't even mention that chicks can't get pregnant solo, it's 100% the woman's fault from his POV and the sorry punk who got her pregnant was just what? "Being a man?"

GTFOH
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