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I believe people with kids should date each other. I remember this dude with a kid said he preferred to date women with children versus women without due to the issues..made sense. If I had a child or children, I wouldn't date men without kids. 

What irks me, is men and women with kids by more than one man/woman still out there looking....I believe if you didn't get it right the first and second time, then you need to do some self-work and readjust your priorities. I know of a few people like this and I need to distance myself from them at times because it is pathetic.


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Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Actually I think its alot harder to find a man w/o kids then a woman.   The men typically don't have custody, however.  Wish both sexes were more responsible with their bodies and procreated when they were mature enough financially and emotionally to handle raising kids.

Didn't read the whole thread incase this sentiment was already posted.


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& how did you come to that conclusion?  Statistics show that there are more women w/ kids than men w/ kids.  Custody or not.  Just look at the bhm active males vs bhm active females.  100% of the guys dont have kids.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 

Of course it is. Alot of the times the woman is the one taking care of the child. If a woman gets with a man with kids he probably isn't the one who has the kid most of the time anyway.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote niecy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 10:36am
Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Actually I think its alot harder to find a man w/o kids then a woman.   The men typically don't have custody, however.  Wish both sexes were more responsible with their bodies and procreated when they were mature enough financially and emotionally to handle raising kids.

Didn't read the whole thread incase this sentiment was already posted.


I agree
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& how did you come to that conclusion?  Statistics show that there are more women w/ kids than men w/ kids.  Custody or not.  Just look at the bhm active males vs bhm active females.  100% of the guys dont have kids.

How do we know 100% of the dudes on here don't have kids though?
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Is this worth the read? Disapprove I'm bored and it's the longest thread floating around right now. 
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 

Of course it is. Alot of the times the woman is the one taking care of the child. If a woman gets with a man with kids he probably isn't the one who has the kid most of the time anyway.


Yeah I know. My youngest brother is currently dating a woman with a kid. They use to see each other after the kid was first born and just recently reconnected. He likes the woman and connects great with the little girl and takes her out from time to time with them. Some guys dont mind. Then again  both of my bros are kinda set on the idea of having big fams one day and love kids.... dunno where they got that shh from.
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Actually I think its alot harder to find a man w/o kids then a woman.   The men typically don't have custody, however.  Wish both sexes were more responsible with their bodies and procreated when they were mature enough financially and emotionally to handle raising kids.

Didn't read the whole thread incase this sentiment was already posted.


I agree
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& how did you come to that conclusion?  Statistics show that there are more women w/ kids than men w/ kids.  Custody or not.  Just look at the bhm active males vs bhm active females.  100% of the guys dont have kids.

How do we know 100% of the dudes on here don't have kids though?
I said ACTIVE.  I am going off of what they have said.  They can easily hide whatever they want from us.  You dont have to be transparent on the net.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Actually I think its alot harder to find a man w/o kids then a woman.   The men typically don't have custody, however.  Wish both sexes were more responsible with their bodies and procreated when they were mature enough financially and emotionally to handle raising kids.

Didn't read the whole thread incase this sentiment was already posted.


I agree
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& how did you come to that conclusion?  Statistics show that there are more women w/ kids than men w/ kids.  Custody or not.  Just look at the bhm active males vs bhm active females.  100% of the guys dont have kids.

Assuming the handful of BHM males are 100% kid-less and accurately represent black males in general is like thinking Baltimore is part of DMVBut you go ahead and run with that!

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Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

Is this worth the read? Disapprove I'm bored and it's the longest thread floating around right now. 
meh, it turns into ur typical childless vs unmarried parent thread
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