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Originally posted by Kocoa Kocoa wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by Kocoa Kocoa wrote:

30 and childless checking in.

The only thing I could say about this (and I'll tell e'erbody) is:

There's no way I'm having kids on my own. I am not a strong woman, I cannot take the struggle.


And honestly, there's no shame in saying this and I wholeheartedly agree. Short of some crazy scenario happening (divorce, widowed, etc), I have no desire to CHOOSE to raise a child solo.

I get tired of BW having the mantra shoved down our throats that we're supposed to ALWAYS be stronger than the rock of Gibraltar and ready to take on every trial and tribulation that life has to give us entirely solo - in other words "I don't need a man". Although it can be done, it's not ideal to be a single parent. It took more than one person to make the baby, it takes more than one to raise a baby.



That's down to the point for me. I've seen too many women having to chase men down trying to get them to hold down their baby while she working 2 jobs or the late shift. That ish does not even remotely look fun.
Word. But most women who are single mothers don't ever imagine that their SO/Exhusband/jumpoff would be trifling and not want to take care of his child when they break up. 
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I used to think like that about men when I was living in the US...There is a whole lotta folks (men/women) in their 30s upward with no kids....some married, some not...but just living their lives, fueling their careers and have every intention of having kids one day. I rarely come across people with kids. 

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I believe people with kids should date each other. I remember this dude with a kid said he preferred to date women with children versus women without due to the issues..made sense. If I had a child or children, I wouldn't date men without kids. 

What irks me, is men and women with kids by more than one man/woman still out there looking....I believe if you didn't get it right the first and second time, then you need to do some self-work and readjust your priorities. I know of a few people like this and I need to distance myself from them at times because it is pathetic.


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Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Actually I think its alot harder to find a man w/o kids then a woman.   The men typically don't have custody, however.  Wish both sexes were more responsible with their bodies and procreated when they were mature enough financially and emotionally to handle raising kids.

Didn't read the whole thread incase this sentiment was already posted.


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& how did you come to that conclusion?  Statistics show that there are more women w/ kids than men w/ kids.  Custody or not.  Just look at the bhm active males vs bhm active females.  100% of the guys dont have kids.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 

Of course it is. Alot of the times the woman is the one taking care of the child. If a woman gets with a man with kids he probably isn't the one who has the kid most of the time anyway.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Actually I think its alot harder to find a man w/o kids then a woman.   The men typically don't have custody, however.  Wish both sexes were more responsible with their bodies and procreated when they were mature enough financially and emotionally to handle raising kids.

Didn't read the whole thread incase this sentiment was already posted.


I agree
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& how did you come to that conclusion?  Statistics show that there are more women w/ kids than men w/ kids.  Custody or not.  Just look at the bhm active males vs bhm active females.  100% of the guys dont have kids.

How do we know 100% of the dudes on here don't have kids though?
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Is this worth the read? Disapprove I'm bored and it's the longest thread floating around right now. 
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Its more expensive for a childless man to date a woman with kids than it is for a childless woman to date a man with kids. 

Of course it is. Alot of the times the woman is the one taking care of the child. If a woman gets with a man with kids he probably isn't the one who has the kid most of the time anyway.


Yeah I know. My youngest brother is currently dating a woman with a kid. They use to see each other after the kid was first born and just recently reconnected. He likes the woman and connects great with the little girl and takes her out from time to time with them. Some guys dont mind. Then again  both of my bros are kinda set on the idea of having big fams one day and love kids.... dunno where they got that shh from.
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