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newdiva1 
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Joined: Dec 15 2006
Location: meh
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 Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:28am |
 lanae wrote:
I'm 24, childless and keep getting approached by divorced fathers. idk what it is. Ppl w/ kids should date each other bc they have much more in common *shrugs* |
but most don't want to date another person with kids. why? cause they want that other person to put their child first. 
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afrokock
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Joined: May 19 2008
Location: South London
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Points: 1266523
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:30am |
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We giving out round of applause for sh*t y'all supposed to be doing anyway?
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modelbusiness82
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Joined: May 21 2008
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Points: 45076
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:38am |
newdiva1 wrote:
lanae wrote:
I'm 24, childless and keep getting
approached by divorced fathers. idk what it is. Ppl w/ kids should date
each other bc they have much more in common *shrugs* |
but most don't want to date another person with kids. why? cause they want that other person to put their child first.
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This
and I think they also don't want to deal with your potential baby
mama/daddy drama. It's ok to throw their problems on you, but you need
to come to them with a clean slate and a focused mind. I've definitely
heard a guy say that before and I definitely gave him the  face.
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Lite Brite
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Joined: Apr 23 2011
Location: Texas
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Points: 130721
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:42am |
Positive K wrote:
Bout the time I'm ready to settle down and have children (+28), I ain't even gonna be looking at women my age cause I already know they gonna have bout 1-2 kids already. I've accepted that people want to have kids early. Getting pregnant ain't an accident, I don't buy that ish. If u fuccin raw, u know it could end in a baby. EVERYTIME I go raw in a chick I leave her a couple dollars for a Plan B pill and the number to her nearest clinic so she can handle that if she needs to.
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newdiva1
Elite Member
Joined: Dec 15 2006
Location: meh
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Points: 238761
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:51am |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
newdiva1 wrote:
lanae wrote:
I'm 24, childless and keep getting approached by divorced fathers. idk what it is. Ppl w/ kids should date each other bc they have much more in common *shrugs* |
but most don't want to date another person with kids. why? cause they want that other person to put their child first.
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This and I think they also don't want to deal with your potential baby mama/daddy drama. It's ok to throw their problems on you, but you need to come to them with a clean slate and a focused mind. I've definitely heard a guy say that before and I definitely gave him the face.
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indeed Model. I just laugh when I hear that type of stuff from both sides. Come on now. I would never say settle but I don't think it's fair to require what u yourself don't have. *chuckles*
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fairyQueen092
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Joined: Sep 10 2010
Location: Suckmy, Nepal
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Points: 90218
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:00am |
afrokock wrote:
We giving out round of applause for sh*t y'all supposed to be doing anyway?
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Smh aint that some sh*t 
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Meme0887
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Joined: Mar 12 2009
Location: US - Georgia
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Points: 62081
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:01am |
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Midwest_Da_Gawd
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Joined: Jan 30 2012
Location: STL
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:29am |
afrokock wrote:
We giving out round of applause for sh*t y'all supposed to be doing anyway?
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It's just a testament to how abnormal it is for a sister to be childless out here. But I'm sleep tho.
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Kocoa
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Joined: Jul 02 2011
Location: Oz
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Points: 2322
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:29am |
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30 and childless checking in.
The only thing I could say about this (and I'll tell e'erbody) is:
There's no way I'm having kids on my own. I am not a strong woman, I cannot take the struggle.
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carolina cutie
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Joined: Jun 28 2006
Location: StrwberryFields
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Points: 337359
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:46am |
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I respect those who don't have kids.
I respect those single parents who have kids and raise them.
No shade here.
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