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 Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:42am |
 Positive K wrote:
Bout the time I'm ready to settle down and have children (+28), I ain't even gonna be looking at women my age cause I already know they gonna have bout 1-2 kids already. I've accepted that people want to have kids early. Getting pregnant ain't an accident, I don't buy that ish. If u fuccin raw, u know it could end in a baby. EVERYTIME I go raw in a chick I leave her a couple dollars for a Plan B pill and the number to her nearest clinic so she can handle that if she needs to.
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newdiva1
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 12:51am |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
newdiva1 wrote:
lanae wrote:
I'm 24, childless and keep getting approached by divorced fathers. idk what it is. Ppl w/ kids should date each other bc they have much more in common *shrugs* |
but most don't want to date another person with kids. why? cause they want that other person to put their child first. 
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This and I think they also don't want to deal with your potential baby mama/daddy drama. It's ok to throw their problems on you, but you need to come to them with a clean slate and a focused mind. I've definitely heard a guy say that before and I definitely gave him the  face.
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indeed Model. I just laugh when I hear that type of stuff from both sides. Come on now. I would never say settle but I don't think it's fair to require what u yourself don't have. *chuckles*
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:00am |
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We giving out round of applause for sh*t y'all supposed to be doing anyway?
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Smh aint that some sh*t 
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:29am |
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We giving out round of applause for sh*t y'all supposed to be doing anyway?
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It's just a testament to how abnormal it is for a sister to be childless out here. But I'm sleep tho.
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Kocoa
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:29am |
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30 and childless checking in.
The only thing I could say about this (and I'll tell e'erbody) is:
There's no way I'm having kids on my own. I am not a strong woman, I cannot take the struggle.
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:46am |
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I respect those who don't have kids.
I respect those single parents who have kids and raise them.
No shade here.
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:54am |
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i dont believe in mistakes
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 1:56am |
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
afrokock wrote:
We giving out round of applause for sh*t y'all supposed to be doing anyway?
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It's just a testament to how abnormal it is for brutha's and sisters to be childless out here.
But I'm sleep tho.
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Posted: Feb 05 2013 at 2:08am |
Kocoa wrote:
30 and childless checking in.
The only thing I could say about this (and I'll tell e'erbody) is:
There's no way I'm having kids on my own. I am not a strong woman, I cannot take the struggle.
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And honestly, there's no shame in saying this and I
wholeheartedly agree. Short of some crazy scenario happening (divorce,
widowed, etc), I have no desire to CHOOSE to raise a child solo. I
get tired of BW having the mantra shoved down our throats that we're
supposed to ALWAYS be stronger than the rock of Gibraltar and ready to
take on every trial and tribulation that life has to give us entirely
solo - in other words "I don't need a man". Although it can be done,
it's not ideal to be a single parent. It took more than one person to
make the baby, it takes more than one to raise a baby.
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