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jonesable
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:36pm |
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I'm diminishing the person by saying I personally see it as a misstep?
Single fathers get a lot of love they will be alright
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carolina cutie
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EPITOME
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:38pm |
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
Finding out a woman you interested in got kids
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Some of you sisters need to get it together, because this Brotha over here is 'bout fed up.
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did anyone ask what you're bringing to the table?
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carolina cutie
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:43pm |
Pity, he is just playin' around with us. He ain't lookin' for no woman with no kids because he already found his Black Queen Nita. Tru luv!
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Limalady
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:44pm |
Sinnamon_Mami wrote:
Meh, so what.. I have kids.. |
Adorable twin girls if I remember correctly. Aren't you married though?
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BeatriceBean
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:45pm |
The old time African-American proverb seems to apply:
"Everything ain't for everybody."
If you don't want to date a single parent, you most certainly don't have to. And if you're a single parent, you don't have to let people's POVs affect how you feel about yourself. Life goes on for everybody.
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newin2009
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:47pm |
EPITOME wrote:
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
Finding out a woman you interested in got kids <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
Some of you sisters need to get it together, because this Brotha over here is 'bout fed up. 
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did anyone ask what you're bringing to the table?
| *raises hand* I asked him...he skipped over my post
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Limalady
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:48pm |
EPITOME wrote:
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
Finding out a woman you interested in got kids
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Some of you sisters need to get it together, because this Brotha over here is 'bout fed up.
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did anyone ask what you're bringing to the table?
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I don't mind their rants, since they aren't really the kind of men I date anyway.  There is nothing wrong with them though, it's me really. I have shallow preferences like earning potential, chivalry, ambition, investment capital, home ownership, etc. You know...shallow things.
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Bunnyahh
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:50pm |
maysay1 wrote:
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?
100% of the women I'm close with are on birth control, actually use their birth control properly (along with condoms), and have no problem going to get an abortion if for some reason they get pregnant and don't want to be.
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:55pm |
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I feel like single parents shouldn't even have time to date...every minute should either be devoted to your child or yourself. Especially if you have more than one child.
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