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bunzaveli 
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 Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:22pm |
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is this getting messy ?
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jonesable
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:22pm |
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That's non negotiable I see it as a blemish and something I don't really want to deal with.
I wouldn't care if it was a result of a ltr or any of that.
Some ppl like it , I don't.
This isn't about being perfect.
ETA: I agree with Sang on the premade family rip.
Do not want
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Wildfire
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:24pm |
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jones..i honestly wouldnt want to take on the responsibility of a man's kids....so i can understand. But i wouldnt easily judge that man for having a child/kids (unless its with 3 different women, etc, lol), because he's a single dad
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jonesable
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:25pm |
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No it's not me judging him.
He could be an awesome guy with a lot of things going for him.
But I don't think I could.
Some ppl say the same about short guys .
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:28pm |
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I don't have any kids and I expect the same from the man. I've tried to date men with kids but its just too much, especially if the baby mama is around.
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Junior Jr
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:28pm |
we ain't down for insta-families on this side
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:30pm |
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Meh, so what.. I have kids..
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:34pm |
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MM is just looking for more reasons to be fed up
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:35pm |
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I know plenty single mothers who are ambitious and all that jazz.
But I do see it as a major misstep especially if its unplanned.
A man can have all the above but if he is a single father I see it as a blemish |
I've never dated a man with kids so I can agree on the not dating one with kids, but why diminish the person because of your personal taste. It's something that you don't want to deal with, which is fine I completely agree, but all the character bashing along with it is weird IMO. Everybody doesn't have the same value system, so that misstep could have been a planned blessing in their eyes.
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:36pm |
bunzaveli wrote:
is this getting messy ?
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why im here for bunzy 
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