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 Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 3:40pm |
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This ain't towards you MW but I think it's funny that men are quick to holler they won't date a woman with kids but when they have a football team of kids from different women they expect a woman to want to date them and their 15 kids.
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:04pm |
Making mutual dumb decisions <<<<
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:07pm |
 ms_wonderland wrote:
Why is it offensive? I don't want a man with kids either. |
he made it sound like having a child = disease.
a woman is 'not together' if she has a child/children MM?
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
Finding out a woman you interested in got kids
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Some of you sisters need to get it together, because this Brotha over here is 'bout fed up. 
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:09pm |
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Depending on the circumstances no she isn't together.
I feel the same about a guy.
That's a lot going on
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:12pm |
Wildfire wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
Why is it offensive? I don't want a man with kids either. |
he made it sound like its a disease. Sounds disrespectful.
a woman is 'not together' if she has a child/children MM? |
lol i try not to read too much into the way he says things...he's young...it probably is frustrating to keep meeting 21 and 22 yr old women with kids when you're just trying to have fun.
you can definitely have it together with kids. the women with kids are usually doing better for themselves than the men with kids.
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:13pm |
jonesable wrote:
Depending on the circumstances no she isn't together.
I feel the same about a guy.
That's a lot going on |
Well then this would speak to the type of women he is going after or finding himself with. Not fair to generalize/ Most of the women i know with a child/children are very much together ---careers, homes, the works. One/two kids when youre in a solid financial situation and know what youre about, is not a negative IMO
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:15pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
Wildfire wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
Why is it offensive? I don't want a man with kids either. |
he made it sound like its a disease. Sounds disrespectful.
a woman is 'not together' if she has a child/children MM? |
lol i try not to read too much into the way he says things...he's young...it probably is frustrating to keep meeting 21 and 22 yr old women with kids when you're just trying to have fun.
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yeah, i can understand from that angle
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:16pm |
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I know plenty single mothers who are ambitious and all that jazz.
But I do see it as a major misstep especially if its unplanned.
A man can have all the above but if he is a single father I see it as a blemish
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:21pm |
jonesable wrote:
I know plenty single mothers who are ambitious and all that jazz.
But I do see it as a major misstep especially if its unplanned.
A man can have all that jazz but if he is a single father I see it as a blemish |
You dont know peoples individual situations, i think its quite presumptuous to judge people just off the bat.
The man/woman may have been in long term relationships, may have been married, etc. Youre not perfect, no-one else is.
Having a child/children isnt automatically a bad thing.
If a woman/man by choice, or circumstances end up being a single parent, for a myriad of reasons but are fully capable of taking care of their child/kids in every way, i think its unfair to just cast aspersions simply because thats not your situation.
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 4:22pm |
I don't care about anyone's situation. I don't want a premade family.
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