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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I've heard from someone that people who wait to have kids are selfish and can't see the world beyond themselves...this came from a mom.


what did she say about women that never have any?

*bites nails* LOL


The convo was directed at my cousin and I bc we are late twenties w no kids and no plans for any. She thinks it's time for us to settle down...she considers herself to be a traditionalist...I will give her credit for being a good provider as a single mother but I feel like her comments came from a place of envy.


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eta: well maybe not. ppl change and mistakes and life happen. but i think selfish is such a harsh worn for women w/o kids


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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Its not really all that bad... 

#1- she won't be pressuring you to have a baby with her.. (ideally).
Its her kid and her responsibility. And most women who want to have a child would rather get married first... so hey.. thats something else you wont have to rush into because of her biological clock.

#2- If you land on the right single mother that you like alot who gets a good amount of child support, you both can spend the baby daddies child support check on important things like Jordans, and rims!!

I'm just trying to see the glass half full here.

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Not very.
 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I wouldn't want a man that gets alimony


Makes sense if you ever want to get married...because as soon as you do those checks stop.

I wonder how much Gabrielle Union's ex gets in alimony...
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Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Its not really all that bad... 

#1- she won't be pressuring you to have a baby with her.. (ideally).
Its her kid and her responsibility. And most women who want to have a child would rather get married first... so hey.. thats something else you wont have to rush into because of her biological clock.

#2- If you land on the right single mother that you like alot who gets a good amount of child support, you both can spend the baby daddies child support check on important things like Jordans, and rims!!

I'm just trying to see the glass half full here.

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And then you get shot by the baby's daddy. Dream over.

Baby daddy wont ever find out.LOL

like "damn dawg... those some nice rims... what are those ADR's on Pirelli's?"
"yeah dawg.. courtesty of my babbeh daddeh!"

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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I wouldn't want a man that gets alimony
lmao, why ?


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I've heard from someone that people who wait to have kids are selfish and can't see the world beyond themselves...this came from a mom.


lol

were her pregnancies planned?


Nope. Single...32 with a 12 yr old.


okay, makes sense


Yeah, usually people who make statements like that to single people are secretly miserable on the inside and want as many people to join in their misery as possible ( misery loves company) so yeah, she was jealous for sure.

I don't agree with people giving their opinion in such a way as to make someone feel bad about Living Life. Nobody wants to hear that shyt.

And THIS statement came from a mom.
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having kids you aren't ready to have is more selfish IMO
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date a man with children?  hell no.  I didn't not have kids so I could deal with somebody elses.  Then on top that...the bullsh*t that comes with babymama's?  no.  hell no.
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