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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I've heard from someone that people who wait to have kids are selfish and can't see the world beyond themselves...this came from a mom.


lol

were her pregnancies planned?


Nope. Single...32 with a 12 yr old.


okay, makes sense
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Been there, done that, never doing it again. I don't like being around children that much. 
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Its not really all that bad... 

#1- she won't be pressuring you to have a baby with her.. (ideally).
Its her kid and her responsibility. And most women who want to have a child would rather get married first... so hey.. thats something else you wont have to rush into because of her biological clock.

#2- If you land on the right single mother that you like alot who gets a good amount of child support, you both can spend the baby daddies child support check on important things like Jordans, and rims!!

I'm just trying to see the glass half full here.

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lmao, my brothers girlfriend is on foodstamps, he already buying hot pockets with that childs money
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Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I've heard from someone that people who wait to have kids are selfish and can't see the world beyond themselves...this came from a mom.


what did she say about women that never have any?

*bites nails* LOL


The convo was directed at my cousin and I bc we are late twenties w no kids and no plans for any. She thinks it's time for us to settle down...she considers herself to be a traditionalist...I will give her credit for being a good provider as a single mother but I feel like her comments came from a place of envy.
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Its not really all that bad... 

#1- she won't be pressuring you to have a baby with her.. (ideally).
Its her kid and her responsibility. And most women who want to have a child would rather get married first... so hey.. thats something else you wont have to rush into because of her biological clock.

#2- If you land on the right single mother that you like alot who gets a good amount of child support, you both can spend the baby daddies child support check on important things like Jordans, and rims!!

I'm just trying to see the glass half full here.

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Hmmm.Geek

If the mother of his child his wealthy, he has custody and she is cuttin' those checks...I might go for that for a while. Especially if she is giving him alimony too. Guuuurl! lol
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I've heard from someone that people who wait to have kids are selfish and can't see the world beyond themselves...this came from a mom.


what did she say about women that never have any?

*bites nails* LOL


The convo was directed at my cousin and I bc we are late twenties w no kids and no plans for any. She thinks it's time for us to settle down...she considers herself to be a traditionalist...I will give her credit for being a good provider as a single mother but I feel like her comments came from a place of envy.


they probably did
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

 
 
If the mother of his child his wealthy, he has custody and she is cuttin' those checks...I might go for that for a while. Especially if she is giving him alimony too. Guuuurl! lol


perspective
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I wouldn't want a man that gets alimony
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

I think it takes a special kind of person to give up evenings and weekends where you would ordinarily be spending time with your new boo cause he/she is tending to the children. It's like you are making a personal sacrifice for someone else's decisions.
 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I wouldn't want a man that gets alimony
lmao, why ?
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