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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote goodm3 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 2:36pm
I don't date men with kids.....

Its tough out here but it ain't that damn tough. 

Not to mention, i know A LOT of men who have kids who don't want MARRY a woman who has kids. Think about that ladies before you start calling lil man-man and your bf "a family".


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 2:37pm
Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i avoid men who speak badly of their exes...baby or not...

Why?
 
i find that it's generally just not necesary...
 
and most every man who has done this, i've found to be to catty, dramatical, a liar or all three...
 
i said most...not all...
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote melikey Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 2:37pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Some men aren't deterred by it though and some women aren't either

A classmate of mine is 22 with 4 kids each one year apart with three different fathers.
These negros care not


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I know plenty of people who date with kids. Plenty of fish in the sea.
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i don't know very many single mothers.  must be your environs.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Finesseful Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 2:42pm
I met a guy who was 21 with 5 kids. He wanted me to give him $25 dollars so he could get a section 8 apt. Talmbout "I want us to have privacy." Nicca please. I actually think he was a gigolo.
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my 21 year old brother is going to move in with a 25 year old woman with an 8 year old kid.he already is burning thru money like water, someone who used to always have cash on hand.

i told him it was a bad idea, but you cant tell him nothins.
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Im not gonna throw in the towel and say i won't date a guy who has a kid..I would give it a shot! 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote melikey Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 2:44pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

i don't know very many single mothers.  must be your environs.


This is the nice version of what chrissypoo said


It's true though. More educated people wait longer for kids. He would not have these problems to such an extent if he was dating on a college campus.
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I was just about to write a response, but four young ladies no older than 20 all walked in with their babies clung to their hips and not a man or a stroller in sight.

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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

my 21 year old brother is going to move in with a 25 year old woman with an 8 year old kid.he already is burning thru money like water, someone who used to always have cash on hand.

i told him it was a bad idea, but you cant tell him nothins.

How does she look?
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