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    Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 1:57pm
(just saw this on The View)

since it's BHM cheating theme week (month, year) LOL:

is this true?


Women Are Better at Hiding Affairs

'Women are better at having affairs.. they cover their tracks': Sexpert TRACEY COX says wives are playing away more than ever

  • 1.4m women in relationships will seek out affair online this year
  • They use sites Illicit Encounters, Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic
  • Affairs are less about 'emptiness' in marriage and more about sexploration

By Tracey Cox

The first week of January is when affairs are most likely to happen with lots of marriages stretched to the limit over the Christmas break.

Used to be women had affairs if they fell out of love with their husbands and in love with someone else.

Are you one of the many women in the UK tempted to start an affair this week?
The first week of January is when its most likely to happen with lots of marriages stretched to the limit over the Christmas break


These days, a woman can be blissfully happy with her 2.5 children, in love with her husband and reasonably sexually satisfied - and still feel justified having more than a bit on the side

These days, a woman can be blissfully happy with her 2.5 children, in love with her husband and reasonably sexually satisfied - and still feel justified having more than a bit on the side

Then it became pseudo-acceptable (between friends and as much as affairs ever are accepted), to have If-only-I-hadn't-drunk-so-much-or-I'd-never-have-done-it one-night-slip-ups, if you weren't getting any at home.

Illicitencounters.com - the UK's largest and longest running dating site for married people - has 750,000 members. A high proportion are women. Other sites like Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic are also boasting soaring female memberships.


Women are better at keeping secrets and covering their tracks, so less likely to be discovered

There's been a massive shift in women's attitudes towards affairs. Some of it is the 'Fifty Shades of Grey' effect: women feel they've been given permission to push boundaries and try things they wouldn't dare to before. If their husbands don't want to, they'll go elsewhere.

The guilt most feel doing this is minimal: 'I deserve it.' 'It makes me feel alive.' 'I'm a great wife and mother, this is for me'. 'He'll never find out - who am I hurting?' 'Why give up something which gives me intense pleasure?'

Women are better at having affairs, says Tracey Cox, pictured

Women are better at having affairs, says Tracey Cox, pictured


Affairs are becoming less about filling an 'emptiness' in the marriage and more about sexploration. A case of wanting the cake and eating it too.

It's about having the basics (long-term security) as well as the trimmings (exciting bits). .

But here's the irony: turns out women aren't just playing men at their own game of cheating, they're better at it. Women are better at keeping secrets and covering their tracks, so less likely to be discovered.

The old perception about affairs was that women didn't have as many as men because they're in control of themselves sexually and men aren't.

The uncomfortable truth is, given half the chance, women cheat as much as men do. The difference now is we've got just as many opportunities as he had.


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Not really surprised. Women want the Provider & the Lover.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:


'Women are better at having affairs.. they cover their tracks': Sexpert TRACEY COX says wives are playing away more than ever

  • 1.4m women in relationships will seek out affair online this year
  • They use sites Illicit Encounters, Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic
  • Affairs are less about 'emptiness' in marriage and more about sexploration

 
i giggled...


Edited by ThoughtCouture - Jan 09 2014 at 2:02pm
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yes.


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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:


'Women are better at having affairs.. they cover their tracks': Sexpert TRACEY COX says wives are playing away more than ever

  • 1.4m women in relationships will seek out affair online this year
  • They use sites Illicit Encounters, Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic
  • Affairs are less about 'emptiness' in marriage and more about sexploration

 
i giggled...

LOL me too. Whoopie had a hard time getting that name out w/out breaking down LOL.
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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

yes.



quite simply, huh LOL
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I thought this was common knowledge.

Affairs surrounding women only gets sloppy once the baby comes out looking negropeanStern Smile

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Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

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I'm no supporter of infidelity, but I'm amused.

Women are playing what was traditionally/stereotypically a "man's game" in even higher numbers and are beating men at it? Damn.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote PurplePhase Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:13pm
I remember it came out after she died that Farrah F had a long time affair years ago but *no one knew about it. Meanwhile her partner Ryan O's affairs (some) were well published LOL

eta: *no one except her best girlfriend. Who never said a word. I think it came out from the guy.


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