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    Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:32pm
So you and you ex best friend have not been on speaking terms for the past five months. You delete from Facebook the whole nine yards. Her birthday is coming up. Do you wish get happy birthday or not? Your last birthday she wished you happy birthday but at the time you were on speaking terms.

Quick backstory: I just decided to separate myself from her bc she was negative and we have had a long competitive history that I have outgrown. She is a Debbie downer, selfish and all about her. Needless to say, I do not want to be friends with her but not enemies either.

Edited by sbrownie84 - Mar 29 2011 at 9:39pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:34pm
Why is she your ex best friend? And would you like to be friends with her again?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:36pm
^This. What ha happened? lol

If you don't hate the girl, txt her happy birthday. Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:39pm
Haha. I wouldn't, unless you want to start talking again. Or if you think you'll feel bad. But if we're not friends anymore, I'm not thinking about it, because we probably stopped being friends for a good reason.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:39pm
Me and my best friend since 5th grade "broke up" when we were 16. Even though I am sour about what happened, I still got love for her and hope she's doing OK.

4 years later on her 20th birthday, I wished her a happy birthday just to let her know I was still thinking about her, I still remembered, and I hoped she was doing okay. She did the same for me on my 20th birthday.

We didn't add each other on facebook or anything, it was just mutually understood that we wanted the best for each other..but we just went our separate ways.

What divided us was serious though, so I don't know your situation. I will say it took me all of those 4 years to be able to move on from it, and I couldn't have done it after 5 months.

Depends on where you are and how you feel.

Edited by solo - Mar 29 2011 at 9:40pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:40pm
No. Nope. Not at all. No thank you. Never. Hell naw....but that's just meEmbarrassed
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:41pm
this made me remember my ex bf's b-day was a few days ago.  Ah well, we aren't friends anymore.  If it was something important to me, I would have remembered.  She will be trying to contact me in a few fishing for a belated happy birthday though.  She's like herpes...go the fluck away! Angry

So no, if you don't intend on being her friend anymore, then KIM.  If you do see a spark in the friendship, then maybe contact her a couple days before or something, wish her a happy early birthday...all depends on how the friendship ended and if it's worth rekindling.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:41pm
me and my bestfriend of like 7 yrs broke up sort of recently.. 
yes, id still wish her a happy b day. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:41pm
Sounds like a waste of a text, but that's just me.
 
 ets: I just saw brown's reply...I'm in the same boat


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 29 2011 at 9:42pm

No.  Its one thing if we grew apart because of distance or because we took different paths in life, but if I intentionally stopped speaking to you because I felt like you were a bad influence in my life, then there is no reason to celebrate life milestones.  Same goes for ex-boyfriends.    


I don't think its necessary to communicate good intentions with everyone who has ever been involved in your life.  Mentally acknowledging that you wish her the best is enough IMO.



Edited by uppitynegroid - Mar 29 2011 at 9:45pm
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