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    Posted: Jul 28 2013 at 2:26pm
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I'm not even clicking play.

Mmkay, can we stop acting like men are stupid and incapable animals and putting the responsibility of his own actions on the woman?
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I didn't click the play button either.
 
 
Why the heck do these kind of posts make the failure or the success of a relationship the SOLE responsibility of the woman?
 
Sometimes the man is just a rat, a dog, a loser ... so why is it HER fault that the reationship went south?
 
Geesh, stop BLAMING women for a mans bad behavior .. this is not a Muslum country. Dead


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I clicked play .
She's pretty .

From what I remember she didnt say anything wild.
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I'm not even clicking play.

Mmkay, can we stop acting like men are stupid and incapable animals and putting the responsibility of his own actions on the woman?
 
In some instances, they are...LOL
 
Maybe not in this case, but don't act like we ain't read your threadLOL


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Honestly though, she's right. I hit play before I read the replies and she's actually right.

1) You're insecure. Men love a woman with a high self esteem. Not too high, but sevure in herself

2) You nag too much, no one wants to be around someone that complains all the time.

3) Your standards are too high when you have nothing to offer yourself.

4) You're boring

5)You let yourself go. You look like Beyonce when he got with u and now u look like Precious

6) Making him paying for the last man's mistakes. Too much bag gage

7) Social networking. Dont be on Facebook witrh ur boobs all out

8) Not paying him enough attention. He needs to feel appreciated

9) You desperate. Its only been 2-3 weeks you picking out baby names already. You too fast.


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The things to keep a man is be one with him.

Be who you are and have some damn hobbies for once that you actually love to do. That makes you interesting.
 
Again, be who you are and not what you are trying to show, that way you don't have to shuffle throught he bullcrap.
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Honestly though, she's right. I hit play before I read the replies and she's actually right.

1) You're insecure. Men love a woman with a high self esteem. Not too high, but sevure in herself

2) You nag too much, no one wants to be around someone that complains all the time.

3) Your standards are too high when you have nothing to offer yourself.

4) You're boring

5)You let yourself go. You look like Beyonce when he got with u and now u look like Precious

6) Making him paying for the last man's mistakes. Too much bag gage

7) Social networking. Dont be on Facebook witrh ur boobs all out

8) Not paying him enough attention. He needs to feel appreciated

9) You desperate. Its only been 2-3 weeks you picking out baby names already. You too fast.
 
These are obvious but sometimes a woman is just with a rotten guy that's...
 
- trying to control everything you do
- tries to get money out of you
- get jealous and angry, threatening'
- tries to get you away from friends and family
- intimidates you into having sex when you don't want to
- and the list goes on and on ...
 
Once again, these kinds of threads are always placing BLAME on the woman -not the guy. What? He's just fine and he has no responsibility for anything that goes wrong in the relationship? What there are all these really nice guys out there that would never think of using a woman for sex and are only interested in a committed, long term relatiionship and treat their women well ... it's just that it's all the women that are head cases?
 
Nooo. Dead
 
I get tired of women always blameing other women in these threads for a relationship going bad .,, when sometimes he's just a loser and if she is smart she dumps him or if she's lucky ... he will dump her.
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Honestly though, she's right. I hit play before I read the replies and she's actually right.

1) You're insecure. Men love a woman with a high self esteem. Not too high, but sevure in herself

2) You nag too much, no one wants to be around someone that complains all the time.

3) Your standards are too high when you have nothing to offer yourself.

4) You're boring

5)You let yourself go. You look like Beyonce when he got with u and now u look like Precious

6) Making him paying for the last man's mistakes. Too much bag gage

7) Social networking. Dont be on Facebook witrh ur boobs all out

8) Not paying him enough attention. He needs to feel appreciated

9) You desperate. Its only been 2-3 weeks you picking out baby names already. You too fast.


 
These are obvious but sometimes a woman is just with a rotten guy that's...
 
- trying to control everything you do
- tries to get money out of you
- get jealous and angry, threatening'
- tries to get you away from friends and family
- intimidates you into having sex when you don't want to
- and the list goes on and on ...
 
Once again, these kinds of threads are always placing BLAME on the woman -not the guy. What? He's just fine and he has no responsibility for anything that goes wrong in the relationship? What there are all these really nice guys out there that would never think of using a woman for sex and are only interested in a committed, long term relatiionship and treat their women well ... it's just that it's all the women that are head cases?
 
Nooo. Dead
 
I get tired of women always blameing other women in these threads for a relationship going bad .,, when sometimes he's just a loser and if she is smart she dumps him or if she's lucky ... he will dump her.
those are things a woman can't control. Everything that was mentioned a woman can control. She can control herself and no one else. Those are things someone should take heed to to better themselves. It makes them a better person, regardless of men. But for the things that were mentioned, not even I would like someone that had those issues.
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